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You don't have to be gorgeous and heavily made up to attract love.

5 Ways To Be Attractive To Anyone

The best way to be attractive is to work on yourself.

Turns out the qualities people find most attractive about others are ones we can control: Grooming, diet, posture — not the beauty you were born (or not born) with. So, rejoice: You don't have to be a supermodel to get dates and be noticed by men.

"Why Valentine's Day Gets a Bad Rap (And Why It Shouldn't)"

"Why Valentine's Day Gets a Bad Rap (And Why It Shouldn't)"

Whether you're single or in a relationship, Valentine's Day is what you make of it.

Were Valentine's Day a person, I would feel compelled to defend her, take her out to dinner boost her confidence, and let her wonder that I too wonder why people avoid and bad mouth her this time of year. After all, she's just a pastel pink and blood red holiday Hallmark moment. She's not offensive, cruel or beneath me or anyone else.

Inner and Outer Beauty for True Happiness

Inner and Outer Beauty for True Happiness

Every aspect of your life can improve by adjusting your attitude and how you perceive the world.

As women, it is crucial to be surrounded by beauty. It’s also a sign of auspiciousness. Your environment ‘talks’ to you on a daily basis, subtly influencing your perceptions of reality. Women tend to be more sensitive to their environments whether they’re conscious of it or not. Therefore, it is mandatory for you to program your environment to tell you the truth about who you are instead of allowing it to repeat negative habits or patterns.

How To Be A Sensually Empowered Woman

How To Be A Sensually Empowered Woman

Attract others by having absolute confidence, self-esteem and sex appeal.

Being a sensually empowered woman means that you are the keeper of your own mojo. It is that sense of self-confidence, self-esteem and sex appeal stemming from the core of your being and spiraling outward, enchanting every person around you. Sometimes we are in the flow, feeling good and looking our best. Other times we may feel like hiding under a mask, lacking self-esteem and poise. So how do we sustain our mojo and live life in balance?

From Vision to Reality

From Vision to Reality

Living a life with Life, Love & Luxury in alignment is knowing how to make life happen on YOUR terms

Feel the anticipation and sense the wisdom. Have you participated in a debriefing? If not, hang on tight. Accountability is about to enter your life and forever change how you choose to participate in your beautiful First Class Female life. A definition of debrief: to assess the results of an important mission This mission: to allow your life to unfold as displayed on your vision board

Your Path to Wellness- 5 Ways to Retrain Your Brain

Your Path to Wellness- 5 Ways to Retrain Your Brain

The power of positive thinking

1) Visualize Your Success I don't mean to sound hokey but if you have no idea what success in your weight loss endeavor is supposed to look like, how will you be able to measure or even gauge whether you're making progress? Be concise and specific in your visualization and write it down so you can have a reminder with you at all times.

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How To Use Your Attitude To Attract Love

Be confident, take control, focus on the present and don't forget to smile!

You don't have to freeze your eggs to find love, but you may need to adjust your outlook. "Dating success relies on you embracing your life, even if it's not exactly the life you had planned," says Michelle Callahan, Ph.D., a Women's Health contributor and author of Ms. Typed: Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships and Find Dating Success. "Radiating self-assurance makes people want to join you for the ride." Read on for tricks to cultivate that vibe.

Is your relationship with in-laws making you tear your hair out?

Is your relationship with in-laws making you tear your hair out?

Be yourself, if your in-laws don’t like it that then becomes their problem and not yours.

Are you having trouble getting on with your in-laws? You are not alone! The trials and tribulations of trying to live in any kind of peace with your partner's family has been a source of woe for hundreds of years. But knowing that loads of other people have trouble with their in-laws is not much help to you in dealing with your in-laws.

Dr. Romance on Attitude:

Dr. Romance on Attitude:

From Negative to Gratitude

Despite the occasional temporary setback, my life is good, and I’m grateful. It wasn’t always that way, however. At 18, just after I left for college, I was essentially orphaned, and have had to go from no education or support to finding a purpose, supporting myself through a PhD, and developing four businesses to do that. I also recovered from an abusive marriage, and now have been happily married for 28 years, and in successful private practice since 1978. Before I could succeed, I needed to learn to support myself emotionally as well as financially.

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3 Ways To "Size" A Man Up

Can you guess a man's size before he takes off his pants?

OK kids, first things first. Size does not matter to every woman. Plenty of women are satisfied good and plenty and even preferably with some skillfull fingers and well-played tongues and a good battery-operated assistant. That being said, it does matter to some women and it certainly seems to matter to lots of guys who want to know if they measure up or not (as our many other articles on the topic might indicate). But how can a woman (or man) tell if a man will measure up (before the clothes are off, that is)? Are there certain ways a person can know for sure just by looking? We don't think there are definite 100% board-certified correct answers to these questions, but we do have some ideas of where a person may want to look, if this is a topic of importance to him or her.

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Christian Bale’s Wife Loves His Temper

Terminator star Christain Bale says his moodiness makes wife Sibi a "lucky woman!"

Christian Bale's wife Sibi must really love him. According to the Terminator: Salvation star, she adores his unpredictable mood swings—especially when he’s getting into a new character. According to Starpulse, Christian said “My attitude does change at home, depending on which character I'm playing, but Sibi likes that. She thinks it's quite cool. You can look at it in two ways. You can think, 'That poor woman, forced to put up with that.' Or, 'What an incredibly lucky woman, who gets to be with all these different, guys all the time.'"