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Body Image Stress—Fearful Of Aging? [EXPERT]

Body Image Stress—Fearful Of Aging? [EXPERT]

Fearful that signs of aging are turning off the right person? Discover what to do about this fear.

I received the following email from a young man who had read one of my articles:  "One topic that I feel that I haven't seen covered much is the issue of body-image related stress, anxiety and insecurity, and how to fight it. We all age. Personally, I am 27 years old, and rapidly going from a handsome full-headed young man to a completely bald individual in a very looks-dependent society. This process has been devastating to my mental well being in the last 3 years.

Betty White
Betty White rules!

For Women, Sex Gets Better With Age—Right, Betty White?

As women age, their sexual desire declines -- but they're still incredibly satisfied in the bedroom.

Women like Betty White know that aging doesn't have to be something we dread. Yes, body parts may sag, faces may wrinkle and hairs may turn white, but getting older promises much more than a change in appearance—it promises high sexual satisfaction, too.

kirstie alley fat sex

Love & Beauty: What Is "Fat Sex?"

Plus: Top 50 beauty products for moms. 6 botched plastic surgeries. The first anti-wrinkle pill.

Top 50 beauty products for moms. 6 botched plastic surgeries. Would you let a few extra pounds keep you from having healthy sex? Kirstie Alley sure doesn't. Holly Madison's boobs are insured for $1 million. 7 very logical beauty fixed to very common problems.

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Optimists Have Better Sex As They Get Older

Sexual health may depend on how well you think you age.

According to a new study from the University of California, San Diego, sexual satisfaction correlates with "successful aging" and feelings of positive quality of life.

Salma Hayek

Salma Hayek, 44, Is More 'At Ease' With Her Sexuality Now

The actress dishes on her body and how she's only getting sexier with age.

Salma Hayek is 44? Well, she certainly doesn't look it on the cover of Allure's September issue! The actress recently took some time apart from promoting her new cosmetics line, Nuance, to talk to the magazine about aging, and, well, being so darn sexy!

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How To Have Great Sex After 50

Common myths about sex in midlife and beyond -- busted.

Judging from the images the popular media puts forth, you'd think sex was only for 20-somethings. Nothing is further from the truth. Sex at midlife and beyond is a subject mired in confusion and misinformation. Here are some common myths, and the straight story about sex after 50.

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How To Handle A Husband Who's Aging Faster Than You

A common issue in middle-age relationships.

It happens in so many later-middle-age relationships: The man, a few years older than the woman to begin with, shows signs of aging at a faster pace than the woman does, leaving her frustrated on a number of levels. If this is simply a dating couple, and the woman isn't fully committed to the relationship, she may bolt at this point. If they're a married (or live-together) couple, breaking up for this reason is unlikely but not unheard of. Most women, though opt for less extreme solutions…while others simply sigh in resignation or grouse to their friends. Fortunately there are some answers.

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The (Very Sexy) Benefits Of An Empty Nest

An empty nest can actually improve your relationship... and sex life.

Each year, it is believed that thousands of couples across the country experience intense, irreversible heartbreak. The culprits? Their children. In the 1970s, psychologists clinically identified and popularized the term "empty nest syndrome" to refer to the depression, anxiety and loneliness that can overcome parents when their children leave home to begin their adult lives. We propose that this period known as the empty nest be reintroduced to society as synonymous with renewal, abandon and the best sex of your life—because it should be.

Does Male Menopause Exist?

Does Male Menopause Exist?

Some men suffer the effects of very low testosterone male menopause but not as many as once thought.

A new British study of 3,000 men reveals that what many drug companies have called "hypogonadism" a sort of male menopause blamed on low testosterone—mood changes, body changes and a loss of energy—might just be plain, old aging. Nothing less. Nothing more.

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What If Mr. Right Doesn't Exist?

One woman wonders if her sister's prince will ever come. Is Mr. Right out there?

You’re almost 35 now and want nothing more than a flesh-and-blood child of your own with a man you love—more than you wanted that master’s degree, that great job you have, that beautiful house you bought with your own money or that strong, athletic body you worked so hard to get back after he broke your heart the last time and ran off with someone else.