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5 Marriage Secrets For Valentine's Day [EXPERT]
Make your man feel loved and wanted on February 14th and forever!

5 Marriage Secrets For Valentine's Day [EXPERT]

Tips that will improve your marriage for Valentine's Day and beyond!

Valentine's Day is the holiday for romance and romantic gestures. Why not take advantage of this day dedicated to love to improve your marriage? With a few simple switch-ups, you can put some practices in place that will improve your marriage for Valentine's Day and beyond!

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Do your kisses add any sizzle to your marriage?

Does Your Marriage Need A Bliss Kiss? [EXPERT]

Married for what seems like a long time? Keep the sizzle with a bliss kiss!

Next time you run out the door, stop, face your mate, let your lip to lip kiss linger long enough to remember how much there is to appreciate in a sweet, three second moment.

How To Read Your Partner's Mind [EXPERT]
If you want coffee in bed every Saturday morning, simply make it known to your partner!

How To Read Your Partner's Mind [EXPERT]

Is it really mind reading or just a simple pattern of affection?

It always seems like one person wants their partner to have the ability to read their mind. This is what they tell me in my office : "He should KNOW what I like/want/need without me having to tell him. If I have to tell him what I want, well, then it doesn't mean as much when he gives it to me." The funny thing is that some couples seem to be very good at mind reading. But are they really?

My man has no interest in sex

My man has no interest in sex

Sexless relationship

I am with a man who used to be very passionate and loved to make love to me and now he doesn't make love to me at all and its been this way for a couple of years now. He is 9 years older than me and I am 56. I am very attraction, sexually appealing, so men tell me, and have a positive attitude and am very kind and understanding. We don't even sleep in the same bed anymore. He says he loves me and we will be together forever and he's a nice man and is respectful but I miss the passion that was once there.

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Gifts are not the only ways to show generosity in your relationship.

'Tis The Season! 4 Signs You Have A Giving Relationship

The National Marriage Project uses 4 questions to measure generosity, a sign of happy relationships.

Studies show that being a generous partner not only makes for a happier relationship, but actually provides health benefits for both partners. But how can you tell whether you're truly generous? Many people have trouble assessing this personality trait, and tend to overestimate their own generosity. Others are chronic "givers," letting their significant other walk all over them and often not even knowing it.

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Take some advice from The Beatles. Turn to your partner and say "I wanna hold your hand!"

Affection Is Key To Keeping Love Alive [EXPERT]

Kiss your partner. Hug them. Squeeze them. Affection matters.

I was walking down the street one day when an elderly couple caught my eye. They were holding hands and still looked at each other with loving affection. The husband even stole a kiss from his "girl" as they walked into the ice cream shop. I was so drawn to the couple that I decided to stop in the ice cream shop myself. At some point, we struck up a conversation. They told me they had been married for 60 years. I asked them what their secret was. Here is what they told me.

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A small part of us makes us seek affection and approval from those who withhold it.

Love Bytes: Ignoring Men Makes Them Love You More

Plus, are your guys' dietary habits getting on your nerves?

When you're hard to get, we try harder. What if your guy cheated in his past relationship? It really bothers some guys if their lady has a high number. What if your lover refuses to answer when asked what his "number" is? Food is just as important to women as it is to men. Imagine that! And, six reasons black women should date outside of their ethnicity.

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Easily Embarrassed People Are Better At Relationships, Study Says

People view those who are easily embarrassed as more relatable, trustworthy and generous.

We've all done embarrassing things as we've stumbled our way through the single world. Whether it's forgetting the name of the guy you just slept with or drunk-texting your ex, no one's immune from making a fool out of themselves. But who knew that when it comes to dating and relationships, a little embarrassment can actually be a good thing?

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Why We Love Reverse Spooning

Being the little spoon isn't just for ladies. Plus, the perfect sex move for spooning.

Are you the big spoon or little spoon when sleeping with your partner? It's commonly assumed that women prefer being the little spoon because they want to feel safe and protected. But many say they also have a need to hug something while sleeping.

Work Late? You Probably Don't Have Enough Sex

Work Late? You Probably Don't Have Enough Sex

As if being sleep-deprived isn't bad enough, late-shift workers aren't getting any nookie either.

Your job could be affecting your sex life in a negative way. About 15 million Americans work crazy hours, and a recent study reveals that 30 percent of those people are concerned about their sex lives.