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Before you sprint down the aisle, make sure you're actually ready to say, "I do."

Are You Ready For Marriage, Or Are You Rushing Into It?

Love and infatuation can feel a lot alike at first, so are you really ready to exchange vows?

Before you start calling up wedding coordinators and venues, before you start looking for a dress and picking out a cake, put away your emotions long enough to ask yourself a few questions.

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Is your happily ever after slipping away from you?

Why Marriage Doesn't Always Equal Happily Ever After [EXPERT]

The myths we tell each other about marriage have very little to do with actual reality.

"Why didn't someone tell me it was going to be so hard? I thought that after we were married things would settle down and we could just be happy together! How come we just fight—and our fights go around in circles and we never solve anything? I am not even sure I should have gotten married in the first place!"

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Sudden flirting could be a major red flag in a relationship!

Are You Married To A Flirt? [EXPERT]

Everyone flirts...but how much is too much in a marriage?

Flirting is a way to interact and get attention. People everywhere dress, talk, laugh, play, and engage, all in an effort to get the attention they need. Babies flirt by flashing a smile or giving direct eye contact. However, when couples get married, sexual flirting is not advised. Sexual flirting is different than the normal, playful flirting the majority of people engage in. My guess is that the sexual flirting in which your husband is participating is the one that has you most upset.

Soul Mate
Your soul mate is out there! All you have to do is believe that this person does exist.

Your Soul Mate Exists – Are You Ready? [EXPERT]

The Universe would not create your desire for a partner unless he or she existed.

You’re reviewing the year and hesitant to set new "love goals" for 2012 – fearful if you do you’re setting yourself up for disappointment as you enter the New Year. Much easier to give up and call it a day, right? Read this first...

How Do I Make This Year The Best Of My Life?
How Do I Make This Year The Best Of My Life?

How Do I Make This Year The Best Of My Life? [VIDEO]

The magical something that can make this year your best yet.

It's the start of a new year, and for some, this can be the beginning of a whole new way of life. How do you make sure that you're one of these people, so you can have the best year yet? Jumpstart Your Love Life This New Year EXPERT In this video, Relationship Coach and YourTango Expert LiYana Silver reveals that magical something that helps people start the new year on the right foot. Learn the importance of "Wanting what you get instead of getting what you want."

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Resolving to hug your partner every day can change your relationship for the better.

7 Relationship Resolutions For 2012 [EXPERT]

Have you made your relationship resolutions? WHAT, you haven't thought about it? Well, it's time!

Almost everyone makes goals or intentions related to their business, and many people make resolutions related to health and fitness. But how many of you make resolutions for your relationships?

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Marriage is for the dogs.

10 Reasons Men Should Avoid Marriage

Marriage is a trap. Stay out or get stuck.

Society says you are incomplete until you're married. It is part of our social programming. Your parents are expecting you to get married, to follow on with their tradition and give them grandchildren. Your friends are all getting married too, leaving you left out. So, if everyone is doing it, doesn't that mean it must be right? Are there any reasons not to marry? You bet! Many good ones.

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

What Men Really Think About You in the Club

Men will consider sleeping with the trashy looking girl, but will never bring her home to mama.

Men and women usually go to the club for vastly different reasons. Men go to the club to find women, find women, and to find women. Women go to the club to sometimes find a man, but also to enjoy themselves by dancing and drinking the night away with friends. Men are reactionary creatures. If you want to know what we think about you at the club, all you need to do is evaluate one thing: Your activity at the club. Men read what women give us to read. It’s as simple as that.

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You better hope that lipstick comes out in the wash.

The One and Only Reason Men Cheat Revealed

Men cheat because of their biology, sex-addiction and even "evolution" right? Wrong! Keep reading..

As "The Pro Marriage Counselor" I have to tell you: There have been so many pop-articles recently about why men and woman cheat. These articles cite everything from so called “evolutionary psychology” studies to the unqualified opinions of celebrities to the actual North American and European infidelity rates. But just because Kim Kardashian or Ashton Kutcher and others say it, doesn't mean it's true!

Understanding Why Men Cheat ... And How You Can Prevent It

Understanding Why Men Cheat ... And How You Can Prevent It

Get him to open up & trust you with his feelings. He will feel a sense of relief & love you forever.

We are a bit nervous about writing this article because we know you may not want to hear what we have to say. Some of this may not be what you want to hear, and this is actually the very reason men don’t tell you what we really think. But we hope that you can benefit from our honesty as part of a potential solution to this age old problem.

Why Do I Always Attract Crazy Men?

Why Do I Always Attract Crazy Men?

The question is, why do some women always attract the crazy men? The answer is you.

Every woman is working with the same pool of men. Say there are four billion men on Planet Earth. This is the pool of men that you have to work with. In this pool, there are going to be gentlemen, pimps, players, hustlers, and psychos. But, it’s the same pool of men. It’s not like the crazy men are coming from outside this pool. The question is, why do some women always attract the crazy men? The answer is you. You can either repel or invite these men into your life. The only reason you attract crazy men is because you talk to them.