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Writer Christopher Hitchens died yesterday, Dec. 15, after battling esophageal cancer.

Christopher Hitchens On Porn, Cheating & Women

The late, great Christopher Hitchens had a scathing wit on everything from politics to cheating.

Christopher Hitchens's most valuable asset was his scathing wit. From his famous digs at religion to his humiliating takedown of Sarah Palin — and even some snippy comments aimed at cats — read the brilliant writer's most incendiary jabs.

Marriage and Divorce - Small Pieces of a Worldwide Puzzle

Marriage and Divorce - Small Pieces of a Worldwide Puzzle

Curious facts and trends, how and why humans get together and split apart.

Marriage and divorce happen all over the world. At any given moment, these two big milestones in individual lives end up making news for one reason or another. Here's a collection that's been growing for a while in my bookmark pile. You'll notice that, like pieces of a puzzle you might find at a yard sale, these newsworthy items are just pieces, but they do make their little contributions to figuring the ins and outs of relationships. —

Why Men and Women Cheat

Why Men and Women Cheat

Worried your partner may stray? Read this article to find out why men and women are likely to cheat.

This guest article from PsychCentral was written by Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT-S The issue of cheating is one of the most difficult problems a couple will ever encounter. A lot of blame and self worth is wrapped up in the issue of cheating. In fact it is incredibly important to understand the differences in both how men and women handle cheating and the reasons why they teeter off from the man or woman that they love. Why Men Cheat

Sex and Power, Power and Sex

Sex and Power, Power and Sex

Arnold Schwarzenegger's adultery reminds us that men with power and moral corruption go hand in hand

Arnold, how could you? It is such a sad state of affairs when we realize over and over again, our politicians, our sport role models, our Hollywood icons, lack the integrity we place on them. It is so easy to tout “family values.” It is another thing to live them. We are waking up to the fact that the people who lecture us most about these so called “family values” are the ones who often have the most to hide.

Study Says Power Leads Both Men And Women To Cheat

Study Says Power Leads Both Men And Women To Cheat

Did Arnold Schwarzenegger cheat because he's a man? No, better to blame his powerful position.

Unfaithful politicians are all over the headlines; just look at the tabloid history of Bill Clinton, Elliot Spitzer and John Edwards, all forced to suffer the repercussions of being caught with their pants around their ankles. But political figureheads aren't the only ones who cheat. Look at Tiger Woods. Or Donald Trump. They all have two things in common. First, their infidelity. Second, their positions of power.

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Does Thinking About Cheating Count As Infidelity?

An Italian court upheld an annulled marriage after the wife thought about having an affair.

A disgruntled husband in Italy filed to annul his marriage after his wife told him she may want an open marriage. No word on how long the couple were married, what context her "open marriage" musings took place and whether the marriage was basically finito anyway, but the Italian court system ruled in favor of the man, the marriage dissolved and the former wife isn't even allowed to receive alimony.

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Thinking About Cheating? Read This First.

If infidelity is calling to you, try these steps to avoid cheating.

Think your relationship is on the brink? Fantasizing about someone else? Thinking at all about...cheating? Ronnie Koenig of AOL Health invites Ian Kerner and Dr. Patti Britton to give anyone in a relationship going south some much needed advice before walking the potentially dangerous path of infidelity—this could potentially can save your marriage...

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Want To Prevent Cheating? Try Prayer

Study shows that prayer may safeguard couples against cheating.

Every year, countless couples consult books, therapists, friends, and websites for advice on maintaining happy relationships. At least two recent studies suggest, however, that couples approach a more divine source of answers: God. Scientists say that couples who pray together are less likely to cheat on each other, and more likely to experience satisfaction in their relationship.

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Indonesian Authorities Not Amused By Sex Tape

Pop star Nazril Ariel may face jail time. Plus, why a sex scene was cut from True Blood.

There has been a bundle of sexy news from Indonesia lately and the hits keep coming. But the nation with the world's largest Muslim population is still a little uneasy when that sexy stuff goes public. Pop star Nazril Ariel may do some time in the pokey for a private sex tape that he made after that pajama-rompa went viral online. The "Peterporn" scandal may land one of the women in trouble for adultery. Plus, True Blood will cut an oral sex scene for reasons other than what you think.

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Why One Newlywed Wants To Have An Affair

Too soon to have an affair? What drove this newlywed to join Ashley Madison.

When it was time to tie the knot, we decided to elope, rather than have a big wedding. We were both in agreement on that. Then, pretty soon afterward, he started traveling for work more often. I started to realize that marrying a highly motivated person means you also marry someone who's... busy. I first heard about Ashley Madison on the radio.

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Jesse James: The "Bad Boy" Mom Warned Us About

If Sandra Bullock couldn't domesticate her tattooed biker bad boy Jesse James, who can?

Who doesn't want to be that special girl who can turn a big, dumb, sexy, tattoo-covered biker into a domesticated Prince Charming? We all want to be that girl, but Sandra Bullock WAS that magical girl. Not only did WE all love her, but the biggest, baddest dude in the cable biker world fell at her adorably quirky feet, while she played loving stepmother to his adorable half-stripper children. It was the fractured fairy-tale version of the American Dream. We all wanted it to work.