Hello loyal readers, occasional glancers, lost lookie loos and my mom.

Today (and today only), Tom Miller (author of Tomfoolery) will be on talk radio. The show Mom Madness on HarlemTalkRadio is doing a feature at 4 PM Eastern today (July 30th) about Facebook (FB talk starts at 4:15) dos and don'ts and wants to pick my ear (and brain and heart) about the subject. Read: Top 10 Facebook Etiquette Rules

The show's host, Simone Perry, is very interested in how FB affects relationships, work and friendships and she happened to see our fantastic "Facebook Manners And You" video on YouTube (feel … Read More

As some of you possibly know, I had the pleasure of being part of Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal's Dating Boot Camp (it was four weeks of tough, tough love). I was the guy that you didn't want to date (for myriad reasons). Just kidding, I was on a their panel of men (a man panel, if you will). It was our task to take questions from the ladies, ponder for three seconds and echo what Matt and Tamsen  just said. Just kidding, we were there to give brutally honest and/ or hilarious answers to questions small and … Read More

Are you in New York City tomorrow (Tuesday June 9th)? Are you somewhat confounded by men on the dating scene and want a little help? Please come by Lord & Taylor Manhattan (424 5th Avenue, 11th Floor) from 6 to 8 PM to get a little guy guidance.

Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal (best friends, lovers, spouses and authors of Why Hasn’t He Called? and Why Hasn’t He Proposed?) have a great program for helping single women get their love lives squared away. This week's dating boot camp features date how tos. Do you … Read More

Have you ever stopped and wonder what he's really thinking? Or if his words and thoughts are on the same page at all? Ever wonder why men do a myriad of goofy, harebrained things? Now's your chance to find out straight from the source.

As part of Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal's wildly successful dating boot camp (based largely on their books Why Hasn’t He Called? and Why Hasn’t He Proposed?), you'll have the opportunity to ask guys why we act like we do when it comes to matters of the heart. The first two installments … Read More

Ever wonder why he didn't call you back? Ever wonder why he's not as interested as he previously seemed? Ever wonder how to play it cool and keep him hot? Find out, straight from the horse's mouth.

Tamsen Fadal and Matt Titus (co-authors of Why Hasn’t He Called? and Why Hasn’t He Proposed?) are running a four-week dating boot camp this month at Lord & Taylor in Manhattan (424 5th Avenue, 11th Floor). (By the by, that's Tamsen, Matt and me in the photo.) In addition to Matt and Tamsen's outstanding (and totally sensible) program, … Read More

Ever wonder why he didn't call you? Find out tomorrow evening straight from the horse's mouth. I'll be live and direct from Lord & Taylor in Manhattan on a panel of guys talking 'bout the issues. The issues at hand this time around? Starting a relationship with a new guy and why his telephone calls aren't as timely as you'd like.

Tamsen Fadal (that's right, "Totally Tamsen" from the Pix11 Morning News) and her husband Matt Titus (renowned dating coach, author and on-air personality) have put together a four-week dating boot camp to solve early relationship problems. The two have … Read More

While most media is still focused on one man in particular, we decided a slow news Tuesday was a good time to check in with the topics floating around the male minds this week.

YourTango's Tomfoolery blogger, Tom Miller, is pondering the role that evolution plays in our dating and mating rituals. Since those who marry later in life—and therefore have fewer babies—tend to be a more educated, does this mean our population is getting dumber? Tom is dubious.

AskMen's Doc Love is doling out advice for a guy who's been in love with his best female … Read More

No matter how many first date do and don't lists singletons read, some dating mavericks still end up getting sloshed, excoriating an ex or wearing an outfit that says "bed me" instead of "wed me."

Glamour asked top relationship writers—our very own Tomfoolery blogger extraordinare included—to compile a list of 25 hard and fast tips for having a successful first date. Like anything that runs the fun-to-potentially-disastrous spectrum, the name of the dating game seems to be moderation.

When choosing a location, for example, Tom suggests the unexpected (rececssion-friendly PBR and Rock Band at home anyone?) as an interesting … Read More

I once worked for a ladies' magazine called Tango. And I only call it a ladies' magazine because a lady founded it. And it was about love and relationships (not something most dudes read voluntarily, I suppose). And it was mostly staffed by ladies. I learned a lot about changing water cooler bottles, moving furniture, computer networking, you know, guy sh*t. It's not to say that women can't be really, really good at lifting stuff or making computers talk to each other, but I have a feeling that it was a kindness to me. Working for a ladies' magazine, in … Read More

According to SkyNews, 2 women in the UK had split birth quadruplets within 22 hours of one another. Confused? Don't be. Karen Wesolowski and Martha Padgett spent 3 years and like $70,000 trying to get pregnant. The lesbian couple tried it all and finally the IVF took... for both of them.

Using Martha Padgett's eggs and donor sperm the couple decided to double their odds by both undergoing IVF. And the gamble paid off with four-of-a-kind. The couple went for their checkup and the sonograms revealed not 1 pair but 2 pair of bogeys. Then, 9 … Read More