Guys weigh in on major turn-offs in a committed relationship.

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While "dating coach" is a relatively new appellation (not to mention occupation), the concept has been around since forever. From Cyrano's aid to Christian in Cyrano de Bergerac to Steve Martin's helpful hints to Rick Rossovich in Roxanne to Uma setting straight a clueless Janine Garofalo in The Truth About Cats And Dogs, romance guides (not marital aids) have been getting people together since year zero. It's probably why God invented older siblings.

But actually paying someone for help was once viewed as being a little too needy (however, paying someone to romance an unruly older sister … Read More

There are a lot of guys who like nothing better than a girl who rolls out of bed, brushes her chompers, throws on a pair of jeans and a shirt and is ready for whatever life has to throw at her. I am not one of those guys. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate that sometimes you (or I) may want to throw on a non-Red Sox cap and beeline it to the quickie mart for all the essentials (Fruit Roll-Ups, TP, ketchup, Olde English, the basics).

But, as the Bible tells us, there's a time for business and … Read More

Pick-up artistry is the idea that there's a certain set of actions that, when used, will make women swoon, give you their phone number and go home with you. The idea entered pop culture in 2005 with the book The Game , and reached its nadir in "The Pick-Up Artist," the Vh1 show where Mystery, a pick-up artist, showed regular guys how to land dates.

To me, pick-up artistry has two sides. It's good if it teaches socially awkward guys skills to interact with people and if it instills confidence in guys who are afraid they have … Read More

 Catie takes her couch to the streets to find out how to add a little mystery to a relationship. Also, can living in separate homes be the key to a successful marriage?

Neil Strauss, author of The Rules of the Game, is teaming up with MySpace to teach dudes how to pick up chicks. Strauss is the guy that has blown the lid off of The Game. And by The Game, we don’t mean the West Coast rapper that once feuded with 50 Cent. We mean the elusive world of pickup artists. Like that show on VH1 where the guy in the silly hat teaches dorks how to meet girls (The Pick-Up Artist).

Anyway, Strauss is unleashing David Faustino (Bud from Married With Children) and Parker Lewis himself … Read More