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New Study Finds 3 Surprising Ways Facebook Helps Relationships

New Study Finds 3 Surprising Ways Facebook Helps Relationships

Study finds Facebook use makes people more trusting, leads to closer relationships.

You may think spending too much time on Facebook and Twitter is a bad thing—it eats at your time, it's a tool for procrastination, you've become a stalker—but new researcher may have you thinking twice before attempting a social networking sabbatical, especially if you're in a relationship. It turns out Facebook can be good for you.

Tila Tequila Totally Unshockingly Turns To Porn

Tila Tequila Totally Unshockingly Turns To Porn

The only surprise is that Tila didn't bang on camera for cash earlier.

So who had August 2010 in the Tila Tequila Does Porn pool? Please stand up and collect your soiled fistful of singles. Yes, the raggedy princess of MySpace, who's kept a relatively low profile since the sad passing of her "wifey" Casey Johnson last winter, has now announced that her next career move will be hardcore smut.

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Everything You Need To Know About Online Dating

Important online dating tips from two women who have tried it. Maybe the push you need to sign up!

Online dating. Yes. We said it. And, as it so happens, we've done it, too. The once super taboo, let's-come-up-with-another-story-about-how-we-met form of meeting people is becoming ever more popular in a culture that has less and less free time and fewer real opportunities to be introduced to the right people. We do everything else online—so why not meet people there, too? To all you single-and-looking ladies out there who might think, "Uh, I'm not sure if I'm ready for that," hopefully we can help ease you into it. Because as weirded out as our parents (and even our own friends) may be by the idea, the Matches, eHarmonys, and OKCupids of the dating realm will only become ever more prevalent in the coming years, especially for working—and over-worked—professionals. What's more, your pool of singletons has grown even larger in the past year, thanks to an economy-in-shambles. With less money to spend on entertainment (and let's face it, more time at home for those unlucky enough to have lost their jobs), people are spending more and more time online than out and about. Instead of their local watering hole, singles are perusing the online personals for dates. What does this mean for you? It means you've got more talent to choose from than ever before. And when it comes to finding your match, choice means the difference between swooning and settling.

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Is It Time To Break Up With Facebook?

How to break up with Facebook, Twitter and social media, for good.

While social networks evolved, ostensibly, to make keeping in touch more time-effective as well as to enable new professional connections they have clearly devolved, for many, in to time-wasting, navel-gazing tools of alienation. Do you spend more time on Facebook each week than you do thinking of ways to make your wife/husband happy? It might be time to break up.

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7 Worst Couples of 2009

You've seen the best. Now here's the rest.

Before we head full-steam into the new year, we're taking a look back at some of 2009's most odious celebrity couplings.

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Don't Want To Hook Up? Kelly Clarkson Can Help

The singer has created a rejection hotline to deter unsavory dates and booty calls.

Kelly Clarkson is known for a lot of things—winning the first season of American Idol; having multiple number one hits; starring in the dreadful From Justin to Kelly. However, according to her official website and Facebook page, Ms. Clarkson might become known for something else—rejection. Miss Independent recently launched the "I Do Not Hook Up hotline"—an aptly titled phone service that not only promotes the singer's latest single but also gives us all an easy out from any uncomfortable dating situation. The number, 973-409-3267, appears as harmless enough digits and could easily be a number from North Jersey.

Is Twating (Twitter Dating) The Next Big Thing?

Is Twating (Twitter Dating) The Next Big Thing?

With a name like that, we hope not.

A woman named Laura thinks she's come up with the next big thing: finding dates with the help of Twitter. She calls it "Twating" (a mash-up of the words Twitter and dating) and she's using her friend Katie as the initial test subject for her experiment (which, thus far, has involved giving Katie the username "datekate," logging on as her, and then tweeting about how much she would like to be taken out on a date).

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4 Dating Red Flags Men Look For

Go inside the boys' club: read dating advice written for guys and learn red flags they look for.

Women are the traditional consumers of self-help books, but guys need advice too. And what better way to find out what goes on inside his head than to read dating advice written by and for men? (Some might say you could ask him, but where's the fun in that?) In this spirit we bring you this piece by men's lifestyle expert, Oliver "Ali" Nejad, who fills you in on four red flags men look for when they're on a date.

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Tila Tequila May Be Pregnant

Tila tweets that ''she's pregnant'' and tells the baby daddy to ''step up''

Reality TV personality and MySpace queen, Tila Tequila, using yet another social networking platform, tweeted to all and sundry that she is pregnant, and that the A-list baby daddy is apparently not stepping up to do his part. According to Extratv, in a late night tweet on May 19th, Tila wrote, ''I'm gonna tell y'all something REAL FAST, then delete it ok?... Since nobody is awake... reason why I've been feeling sick on and off lately is because yes, I am pregnant!''