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Sting & Trudie Styler: Still Sexy After 30 Years

One of the music world's most enduring couples dish on the secrets to keeping love alive.

For the February issue of Harper's Bazaar, Sting and Trudie Styler sat down for a revealing interview about their nearly 30-year relationship. Although the legend of Sting's marathon Tantric sex sessions was debunked a couple of years ago, he and the Missus can still rock and roll in the bedroom...

Long Lasting Celebrity Couples

7 More Lasting Celebrity Couples

These couples have stood the test of time.

In a city where partners are constantly changing, there are a few pairings that have proven to be a real teammates. We've found even more star-crossed lovers that have stayed together while romances among other elite have burned out.

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Sting’s Tantric Sex Rumors Are Totally Bogus

Rocker friend, Bob Geldof started the Sting Tantric sex rumors just for kicks.

Sting and Trudy Styler's daughter Coco spoke to New York Daily News recently and insisted the Tantric sex rumors about her father began as a practical joke masterminded by Bob Geldof.

Heather Graham reveals love of tantric sex

Heather Graham A Tantric Sex Guru

Heather Graham reveals how she makes sex last for hours.

Heather Graham, star of The Hangover, revealed to the Mail on Sunday that she practices tantric sex and got into while filming The Guru in 2002. She says, "What most people know about tantric sex is that Sting does it and it lasts eight hours. But he's not having sex continually. You can take a bath, massage your partner, listen to music. The idea is that you let the whole thing build very slowly until finally you merge with your partner. It works for me."

The Wrong Kind Of Tantra?

The Wrong Kind Of Tantra?

Tantra true and false. Hint: it's not all about sex.

One of the misperceptions of the Tantra practice is that it inherently involves sex. Not so. The belief system is so much more about aspiring to a controlled state of mind than it is about sticking to specific rituals. Like so much of Buddhist and Hindu thought (to which Tantra is closely linked), at all times—including during sex—the goal is being present and "tuned in" to the moment. As one New York City Tantra guru told YourTango, her instruction can seem more like couples therapy than red-hot sex workshop. To start, she tells partners to place their hands on the others' hearts and describe the times they feel most loved or cherished by them. So, before taking it to the bedroom, try applying Tantra to other parts of your life and relationship—the results could be mind-blowing.