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5 Sexy Ways To Spend Your Tax Return As A Couple

Assuming you get a tax return, here are 5 sexy ways to spend it as a couple.

Five ways couples can spend their tax returns together. According to a report by USAToday.com, tax refunds are up by 10 percent this year, with estimates at around $3,036 for the average American. We're going to advise that all of you be responsible and spend a good three-quarters of that on something useful (paying off debt, adding to your IRA, etc.) But the other quarter? Why not spend it on a fun date night, sexy gift or travel with your main squeeze.

Happy Ending Massage for Women

Read one woman's passionate experience getting her female happy ending.

Chances are you've heard the story: an unmarked door leads to a dimly-lit massage parlor where women with strong hands and tolerant smiles await a train of libidinous male patrons. The "happy ending" tale is all too common, a mixture of truth and urban legend that captivates male imaginations even in an age of casual sex and unlimited Internet porn. The rest of spa culture, meanwhile, is dominated by women. For us, all that time spent around low lighting, soft music, and heavy rubbing, it can be tough not to think of sex. But until recently, the female version of "happy endings" has remained doggedly taboo. While one woman's violation may be the next woman's fantasy, here is the bottom line:We like massages and we like orgasms, so why shouldn't the two sometimes, er, come hand in hand? I dispatched a sexy and adventurous friend on a spa mini-marathon—with instructions to request a male massage therapist and, if possible, end each massage with a big finish— to find out.

The Beginner's Guide To Sensual Massage

The Beginner's Guide To Sensual Massage

Make your partner's week with these massage pointers.

Sex is not the only wonderful, wordless way to communicate. Most people reserve touching for only five percent of the body but massage is a great way to create a sense of intimacy with your partner. Author of The New Sensual Massage, Gordon Inkeles, shares some tips.