It was a typical glamorous day in the life of Lara Fernandez. Standing in a long line at the local grocery store, short on time and patience, mindlessly watching the customers ahead of me buying their groceries.
As I slowly and painfully inched closer to the checkout counter, I noticed, one customer ahead of me, an interaction between the checkout lady and two Latino men who looked like day laborers. They obviously didn’t speak any English as they tried to swipe their debit card and punch the correct buttons in the credit card machine to pay for their food.
Have you had people tell you that you’re “too much of a dreamer?”
In LOVE…and every area of life. Johnny and I have always looked to be “dreaming BIG” and keeping our feet on “solid ground.” Sometimes the “dreaming” part took over, sometimes the “solid ground” part took over. What about you?
You May Say I’m A Dreamer…
Have you had people tell you that you’re “too much of a dreamer?” that you need to be “more practical?” or “realistic?” Well, if so, cheer up – you are in GREAT company!
Dare to live YOUR Love Lifestyle NOWbefore your soulmate shows up!
What in the world IS the Love Lifestyle? First of all, it’s living life at 100%…NOW, knowing that life is a precious gift and can be taken away at any moment. It’s turning off the TV, the iPhone and yes, the Internet regularly to connect with yourself… your highest self. It’s disconnecting from messages of mediocrity that are pervasive in this society, that continually condition us all to live a life that’s “normal” and to live within the status quo.
Have you been trying to find your soulmate on your own for years now and it hasn’t happened yet?
I shared with you the first 5 ways to slow down your path to love. I received so much amazing feedback and shares about your aha’s, so I’m super excited to share the last four “NOT-to-do’s”.
6. Leaky Energy (aka Friends With Benefits)
There is a lot to be learned from what NOT to do in love.
While a lot of articles on finding love focus on what to do, there is a lot to be learned from what NOT to do. After 7 years of working with women to attract their soulmate, here are our insights on how spiritual, single, successful women undermine themselves and jeopardize their love life.
"Yes, it’s all about you. Your thoughts and feelings and actions!"
To live your best life with your true love, it’s all about YOU… YOUR peace of mind, your mindset, your vibrational level, your joy. YOU.
I recently read a true story about a woman who was single and sick of it. She had been doing all the “inner work” to magnetize her soulmate. She had read all the books, set up her vision board, and her love altar, she even had her list complete, but nothing was happening in the love arena.
Do you ever think you "should" be at a different place in your life to manifest your soulmate?
Do these thoughts come up for you (or some version of them)?
- I should lose weight and have a perfectly fit and toned body before I attract my beloved into my life.
- I should be more financially stable or have a certain level of income before I manifest my soulmate
- I should just have myself more together before he shows up.
No matter how your past relationships turned out, they all revealed something about you.
Truth tellin’ time, ya’ll. You’ve had some relationships. Some great ones and some horrible ones and maybe most were somewhere a little bit of both. No matter how they turned out, they all revealed something about you. Something important. Something that you can learn from and evolve from and ultimately, if you want to, be able to gather your energy in such a way that you become a powerful magnet for your true love and living your dream life with him.
Find out what YOU should DO when it comes to dating.
They say “Take a Chance”… but are you torn between dating a lot of men and dating only the one who you can really connect with?
Check out my Video Q&A below as I share some juicy details on this matter.
Remember, soulmate love is your birthright!. ♥
Sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever find your true love.
Okay, I know that being “reluctantly single” is not fun.
I know that it gets lonely sometimes.
And frustrating.
And it seems like there just aren’t enough good single, heterosexual men in your area that you happen to live in.
Sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever find your true love.
Often we're just full of it. And scared. And Busy. And just don't know any better.
What are YOU committed to?
“Love!” “Soulmate Love!” “Lifelong partnership!” “The man of my dreams!” – You may be saying. Many people do. Nobody would SAY “I’m committed to more of the same unfulfilling relationships I’ve had the last ten years.” So why does it keep happening?
Because, uhm…how can I say this? Often we’re just full of it. And scared. And Busy. And scared. And… just don’t know any better.
