Sometimes it gets tough and you’re not so “into it” for awhile. Sometimes it’s not so friggin’ easy and is downright scary and your gremlin voice is tearing at your heart and soul telling you that you SHOULD have stayed with that man last year who was good enough or maybe you SHOULD have given that last boyfriend one more chance after he lied to you because now you’re getting old and lonely and you’ll never find anyone! Yep, that old b***h upstairs can be working on you overtime.
BIG LOVE. The LOVE of a lifetime. The kind of love that’ll make your sunny days brighter and will make your gray days warmer- forever. I wish that for you. I WANT that for you. I wouldn’t be spending hours and hours and days and days- writing these articles, writing my book, doing our Love Breakthrough Telecourse and Love Breakthrough Weekend Program workshops if I didn’
In the popular movie We Bought A Zoo, I loved when a teenage boy remembers the moment his father taught him that you only have to have courage and be brave for 20 seconds to make something great happen. This got me thinking about all the people who share with me that they "fear getting hurt again" as if that is a strong enough excuse not to do the work of getting prepared for love.
I remember my single days and struggling with how LONG it was taking to find my One. I was doing everything I had been told to do by the soulmate books I was reading: I had a long “soulmate list” that was very clear of who my soulmate was, I had a soulmate “vision binder” (I had put pictures of happy couples, etc in a binder, like a vision board), I was getting out there, going on blind dates, you name it, I was doing it. But nothing was happening.
I want you to know that I know and understand where you are at in your life. I was once there too. There was a time when I was single and in “manifesting mode”- what I mean by that is I decided to intentionally do the internal work to make the shifts and changes in ME and my core beliefs about life, love and men.
Adapted from “Enthusiasm Makes the Difference” by Norman Vincent Peale “Worry” can be like a thief in the night, stealing your joy, and blocking love from getting in our out. All of our LoveLaunch educational programs are designed to help you live your best life right now. That’s a lot harder if you’re worrying all the time. Practice this five point program, let the worry go and let the love shine in!
It’s too complicated. What if I’m not happy? What if I make the wrong choice- again? What if he dies? There’s no such thing as a soulmate, anyway. What if he cheats on me? I’m too picky. I’ll have to settle- everyone else I know has. I don’t know how to have a healthy relationship. I’m just damaged somehow. Something must be wrong with me.
Do these thoughts come up for you (or some version of them)? - I should lose weight and have a perfectly fit and toned body before I attract my beloved into my life. - I should be more financially stable or have a certain level of income before I manifest my soulmate - I should just have myself more together before he shows up.
This potent New Moon Soul Mate Manifesting ceremony was a powerful event perched at the edge of spring and is just right to yield a garden of love for the summer. A time to set intentions for your heart's desires riding on Taurus the Bull's energetic call to address stubborn self sufficiency....the repellent of true love.
Okay, I know that being “reluctantly single” is not fun. I know that it gets lonely sometimes. And frustrating. And it seems like there just aren’t enough good single, heterosexual men in your area that you happen to live in. Sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever find your true love. Then you worry that if you DO find him, you’ll lose yourself in the relationship, or he’ll leave you, or die, or something awful will happen, like your heart will get broken- again.
Here it is! I have found it. Or rather I have re-discovered it. The secret, the #1 key to attracting anything you desire, including your soulmate. If you are reading this, you are here for a reason. I believe that everything happens for a reason and that there’s a divine plan to it all- even if we in our human-ness can’t/don’t/won’t see it.
Johnny and I have read many books on soulmate love and some of them say something to the effect of, "It's inevitable. You and your soulmate are divinely connected. You're meant to be together and so no matter what, you will find him or her." Our research and experience shows us that this line of thought is just not true! You and your soulmate are divinely connected. It's not inevitable, however. Soulmate connections are intended. Action is then taken to support those intentions, consistently, and then the connection happens.
Letting go of hurts and regrets in past relationships is one of the simplest ways to open yourself up to accept Soulmate Love as your destiny and to start magnetizing it in. Simple, but not easy! I remember hanging on energetically to a boyfriend who “did me wrong”- I was still angry for 2 YEARS after we broke up! Yeah sure, I “knew” about how important compassion and forgiveness were, but I just couldn’t seem to let my anger and hurt go.
You might have heard this powerful realization before: “The quality of our life is determined by the quality of the questions we ask ourselves.” The bigger the question, the more important it is to answer it right now. We just finished a season focused on gift giving and receiving. Here’s a big gift for you. It’s a gift in the form of a question (a big question!) you can use to create your own fulfilled life. Just by answering this question, you’ll be prepared to make this year super great in every way.
3. “It’s Just Luck” thinking – Most people think that soulmate couples are “just lucky”. What we have found in our research is that 8 out of 10 deeply connected soulmate relationships were intentionally created. 2.“Either-Or” thinking - Most people think that they can’t have it all in their relationship. That they can’t have both spiritually connected AND amazing sex in their partner. That they can’t have both deep love AND financial abundance.
Life can get so darn serious sometimes, don’t you think? There’s bills to pay, children and aging parents to take care of, a career to expand on, daily exercise, and that’s just our personal lives! Then there’s world peace, global warming, the economy, and health care to tackle!
Love Is A Habit (and so is wealth) Every week or so, I receive an email or facebook post asking “when is my soulmate going to show up?….I’ve done the inner work, I’ve cleared my chakras, I’ve done therapy for 20 years, I’ve read every book, I’ve written out my “List”- WHEN will he/she show up??!”