This potent New Moon Soul Mate Manifesting ceremony was a powerful event perched at the edge of spring and is just right to yield a garden of love for the summer. A time to set intentions for your heart's desires riding on Taurus the Bull's energetic call to address stubborn self sufficiency....the repellent of true love.
Okay, I know that being “reluctantly single” is not fun. I know that it gets lonely sometimes. And frustrating. And it seems like there just aren’t enough good single, heterosexual men in your area that you happen to live in. Sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever find your true love. Then you worry that if you DO find him, you’ll lose yourself in the relationship, or he’ll leave you, or die, or something awful will happen, like your heart will get broken- again.
Here it is! I have found it. Or rather I have re-discovered it. The secret, the #1 key to attracting anything you desire, including your soulmate. If you are reading this, you are here for a reason. I believe that everything happens for a reason and that there’s a divine plan to it all- even if we in our human-ness can’t/don’t/won’t see it.
Johnny and I have read many books on soulmate love and some of them say something to the effect of, "It's inevitable. You and your soulmate are divinely connected. You're meant to be together and so no matter what, you will find him or her." Our research and experience shows us that this line of thought is just not true! You and your soulmate are divinely connected. It's not inevitable, however. Soulmate connections are intended. Action is then taken to support those intentions, consistently, and then the connection happens.
Letting go of hurts and regrets in past relationships is one of the simplest ways to open yourself up to accept Soulmate Love as your destiny and to start magnetizing it in. Simple, but not easy! I remember hanging on energetically to a boyfriend who “did me wrong”- I was still angry for 2 YEARS after we broke up! Yeah sure, I “knew” about how important compassion and forgiveness were, but I just couldn’t seem to let my anger and hurt go.
You might have heard this powerful realization before: “The quality of our life is determined by the quality of the questions we ask ourselves.” The bigger the question, the more important it is to answer it right now. We just finished a season focused on gift giving and receiving. Here’s a big gift for you. It’s a gift in the form of a question (a big question!) you can use to create your own fulfilled life. Just by answering this question, you’ll be prepared to make this year super great in every way.
3. “It’s Just Luck” thinking – Most people think that soulmate couples are “just lucky”. What we have found in our research is that 8 out of 10 deeply connected soulmate relationships were intentionally created. 2.“Either-Or” thinking - Most people think that they can’t have it all in their relationship. That they can’t have both spiritually connected AND amazing sex in their partner. That they can’t have both deep love AND financial abundance.
Life can get so darn serious sometimes, don’t you think? There’s bills to pay, children and aging parents to take care of, a career to expand on, daily exercise, and that’s just our personal lives! Then there’s world peace, global warming, the economy, and health care to tackle!
Love Is A Habit (and so is wealth) Every week or so, I receive an email or facebook post asking “when is my soulmate going to show up?….I’ve done the inner work, I’ve cleared my chakras, I’ve done therapy for 20 years, I’ve read every book, I’ve written out my “List”- WHEN will he/she show up??!”
Marriage and relationship experts agree on the importance of communicating love to our partners often and in a variety of forms. In his New York Times bestseller The 5 Love Languages, Gary Chapman makes a strong case for spouses learning to communicate love to one another in many forms, but especially in the way the spouse best receives love.
Johnny and I have been helping people magnetize their soulmate (officially and unofficially) for a little over 7 years now…and one question just keeps coming up over and over again. Today, I’m going to answer it once and for all: Our definition of a Soulmate. When you have found your soulmate, you’ll recognize him (or her) by 3 major criteria:
I once had a friend who was on the constant hamster wheel of "almost-men." She continuously dated men who were not her match, but whom she thought she could fix to become her match. She was miserable and exhausted most of the time from all her failed efforts.
I have a question for you. And please let it really sink in- please don’t just rapidly scan over it. Take your time to contemplate and answer it for yourself. There’s a saying that “the quality of your life is determined by the quality of the questions that you ask yourself”… so this is what I would call a Quality Question! In fact, I think it’s one of the most empowering and high vibration questions that is possible to ask someone!
One of my favorite words in the English language is courage. Just saying it out loud sometimes moves my soul to actually feel more courageous. The word courage comes from the Old French definition: “cour” means heart and -age means the period or era. So it literally means “time of the heart! It takes courage to start to believe that Soulmate Love is even possible for you.
It was a typical glamorous day in the life of Lara Fernandez. Standing in a long line at the local grocery store, short on time and patience, mindlessly watching the customers ahead of me buying their groceries. As I slowly and painfully inched closer to the checkout counter, I noticed, one customer ahead of me, an interaction between the checkout lady and two Latino men who looked like day laborers. They obviously didn’t speak any English as they tried to swipe their debit card and punch the correct buttons in the credit card machine to pay for their food.
In LOVE…and every area of life. Johnny and I have always looked to be “dreaming BIG” and keeping our feet on “solid ground.” Sometimes the “dreaming” part took over, sometimes the “solid ground” part took over. What about you? You May Say I’m A Dreamer… Have you had people tell you that you’re “too much of a dreamer?” that you need to be “more practical?” or “realistic?” Well, if so, cheer up – you are in GREAT company!
What in the world IS the Love Lifestyle? First of all, it’s living life at 100%…NOW, knowing that life is a precious gift and can be taken away at any moment. It’s turning off the TV, the iPhone and yes, the Internet regularly to connect with yourself… your highest self. It’s disconnecting from messages of mediocrity that are pervasive in this society, that continually condition us all to live a life that’s “normal” and to live within the status quo.