Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others by John T. Molloy "I love this one and I hate it. I love that it challenges women who waste their time with the wrong man. It's very practical and it boils dating down to a business-school experiment. But it's written by a man who does not take women's insecurities into consideration, and that can breed a sense of scarcity. Take the juicy morsels—the specific statistics about why men marry some women and not others—and leave the rest."