Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate The Five Love Languages for Singles by Gary Chapman "Chapman helps you find peace with past relationships, and gets you really clear about why you weren't satisfied. You figure out how you express love and how you need it to be expressed to you, and it helps you recognize those needs in your partner so you can give them what they need and what feeds their soul. It also helps you read the men you're dating, so you figure it out more quickly if he's not your match."