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This 3-Minute Game Will Improve Your Relationship
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This 3-Minute Game Will Improve Your Relationship

When was the last time you really felt touched? Or gave touch? Think about it - I don't mean a hand shake - or a pat on the back when someone does a great job. I am talking about intentional loving touch, just for the sake of connection, intimacy and pleasure. After all - It is such a basic thing right? The ability to give and receive touch - and yet it is where most couples stumble. How can you stumble in giving and receiving touch you may ask? Isn't touching something that everybody knows how to do. Well - maybe, and perhaps not so much!

The Bible
Traditional Love

Does The Bible Really Condone Homosexuality, Premarital Sex?

Jennifer Wright Knust, Baptist pastor and professor of Religion at Boston University, makes a number of shocking and unorthodox claims in her new book. She writes: “Looking to the Bible for straightforward answers about anything, including sex, can only be a disappointment. When read as a whole, the Bible provides neither clear nor consistent advice about sex . . . If one biblical writer condemns those who engage in sex before marriage, others present premarital sex as central to God’s plan. Just about every biblical commandment is broken, and not only by biblical villains . . . It is therefore a mistake to pretend that the Bible can define our ethics for us in any kind of straightforward way.” Ouch. As someone who strongly believes that the Bible is God’s word to his people, Knust’s assertions really stung.

Jenna Lyons and her son painting nails pink

Poll: What Message Does This Mom Painting Son's Nails Ad Send?

"Lucky for me, I ended up with a boy whose favorite color is pink. Toenail painting is way more fun in neon." That's the quote, accompanied by a photo of J.Crew's creative director, Jenna Lyons, applying pink polish to 5-year-old son Beckett's toenails, that's caused a firestorm of cultural controversy and had critics crying "transgendered child propaganda." We're pretty sure the minds behind the catalog ad thought the toenail painting was just a cute mother-son activity to highlight on their "Saturday with Jenna" page. Prominent conservatives thought otherwise.

Sex Is Not A Four Letter Word
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Sex Is Not A Four Letter Word

I am not a huge music aficionado but I have some favorite artists and songs. Rihanna is right up there. Disturbia makes for a mean cha cha and a nice change from the old school Latin songs on the dance floor. When her latest hit, S & M, hit the airwaves, I turned up the volume. It’s got a great beat and the lyrics are a prescription for permission to invite the vixen out to play.

Ladies, Is Casual Sex What You Need?
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Ladies, Is Casual Sex What You Need?

So you know you're not interested in 'serious'.   Maybe you've recently divorced, or gone through a break up.  Or maybe you're simply focused on other aspects of your life right now. Nonetheless, some part of you is craving sex.  BIG time.  And you're considering having a casual sexual relationship (or two...or five) cause otherwise, you swear you just might go insane.

Breaking The Spell Of Advertising
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Breaking The Spell Of Advertising

Many would agree that as a culture we have been seduced by industries that spend billions of dollars each year encouraging us to buy and buy and buy to try to achieve an elusive and unfeasible ideal of beauty. Millions of our friends, family and neighbors feel so tortured by this unattainable standard of beauty that they are willing to starve themselves, make themselves sick or avoid interaction with others because they feel ashamed of being seen.  On the less extreme scale, millions of others feel disappointed about their bodies and beli

Sexuality and Sexual Disorders
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Sexuality and Sexual Disorders

Sexual disorders are like people -- they come in all shapes, sizes, and kinds. A sexual disorder doesn't mean something is "wrong" with you, only that you're experiencing the kind of issue that can suddenly affect anyone, at any time in their lives, for any reason or no reason whatsoever. While many sexual issues can be traced back to a physical problem or a sudden change in one's life circumstances, many sexual disorders' causes are not well-known or understood.

If Vaginas Could Talk They Would Never Shut Up
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If Vaginas Could Talk They Would Never Shut Up

No I haven't gone off my rockers. But I am quite taken by the idea of the Vagina Monologues: a series of reflective, dramatised, "speeches" which more or less trace the experiences and "psychology" of the vagina. These monologues express and reveal every nuance of a woman;s sexuality; from pain and abuse, to surprise and divine pleasure.

How To Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationship
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How To Introduce Sex Toys Into Your Relationship

Introducing an erotic product into your relationship such as a vibrator or bondage kit can improve your sex life and keep the sparks flying. You may have toyed with the idea of using one with your partner, but not know how approach your partner about this new level of intimacy. If you and your partner are comfortable with one another, but are not sure how he or she would react to the idea of using a sex toy, here are some ways that may help you introduce sex toy play into your relationship.

Why Some Women Need to be "Bitches" In the Bedroom
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Why Some Women Need to be "Bitches" In the Bedroom

  Our responses to sex and our own sexuality can be as complicated as they are mysterious. The truth is, we don't learn about sex in one fell swoop. Our attitudes, behaviours and responses to sex are often a hodge-podge of multiple influences over time. The traditional socialisation of women as the more genteel and nurturing of the sexes, has meant that many women end up feeling very conflicted about their own sexuality.

No To Oral Sex?  You Can Still Have A Great Sex Life
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No To Oral Sex? You Can Still Have A Great Sex Life

Foreplay is an important part of having a satisfying sexual experience. It is not just about the size of the male partner's penis or how flexible your female partner is. Building up to the final act is an vital part of the whole sexual experience. If you and your partner are pretty much going straight to the sexual intercourse, your sex life will become predictable, and possibly leading to sexual frustration in one or both of the partners. 

A Vagina Speaks: A Deeper Understanding of the Vagina
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A Vagina Speaks: A Deeper Understanding of the Vagina

Introducing the Vagina Hello, I'm a vagina and we need to talk. In order to understand me, you must first understand the vessel of which I am a part as I am simply a small part of a woman. Her mind is the most important part. Women are multi-faceted and give off sparks of themselves. Look into a woman's eyes, talk to her, get to know her completely and let all her facets shine before you seek the sensual core.

Young women are having sex...it's true!
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Young women are having sex...it's true!

Once again, it had nothing to do with male sexuality—can’t figure out for the life of me why it’s always gal’s sexuality that’s under scrutiny. Maybe because people keep that old tired, “men can have lots of sex and women can’t…because she’ll get pregnant and get labeled a ‘whore’” dogma subconsciously in their heads.

Sex, Wine & Chocolate Event 10/5
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Sex, Wine & Chocolate Event 10/5

What more could anyone want? All three benefit your health and bring pleasure. Savor every sip, taste and touch more fully through this decadent tasting of wine and chocolate, which integrates a unique look at the intersection of these three joys in life.