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Self Love: Why You Need Shameless Pleasure In Your Life
Give yourself a little love and enjoy that chocolate cake!

Self Love: Why You Need Shameless Pleasure In Your Life

Why women need to stop conflating shame with pleasure to live fulfilling lives.

Shame is a choice: It exists because of our definition of it. If we're shameless about our pleasure, then we think we must be bad. Well, nothing is further from the truth!

4 Secrets From Couples Who Maintain Intimacy and Ecstasy

4 Secrets From Couples Who Maintain Intimacy and Ecstasy

Do you ever wish you had a 'marriage cheat sheet'?  ... a few 'easy to remember' tips that would help keep your love strong?  In a world that squeezes out fun and crams in more demands ... what are the secrets of those that stay 'in love' and those that 'fall out of love'?  In a recent love and marriage survey of over 8,000 participants over 50, couples who were the happiest shared these tidbits ...

Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

Attention Women: Why A Good Lover Will Finish Last

Why the best lover for you will listen with his ears and his hands, as well as his heart.

My intention here is to give you something that makes sense for you, that helps you understand some things you may not have understood before, and that as result, helps your relationship and love-making become more exciting, fun, and lasting. Men are driven visually more than women, not that women aren't driven my visual cues as well, but your drive has an emotional component to it that arrives later for men.  Men are also sexually aroused more quickly than women, and unless they are good at controlling their arousal, they can reach orgasm long before you, and some may even think that that is the end of the sex or love-making session.  If that is your experience, you have likely felt some degree of frustration if not anger, even resentment.  That is clearly a breakup waiting to happen.

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It's amazing what this small change can do for your sex life.

The Best Sex Advice You'll Ever Get

Try this revolutionary idea and change your sex life forever. It's practically guaranteed.

I was having lunch with Dr. Marty Klein last week, author of the groundbreaking book, "Sexual Intelligence." After we'd ordered our shrimp dumplings and pot stickers, I asked him, "Okay, Marty, what would you say, in general, is the number one thing that couples could do to improve their sex lives?" He paused over the steaming shrimp.

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To circumcise or not to circumcise: That is the question.

How Circumcision Affects Sexual Pleasure

Circumcision is certainly the cultural norm ... but what are its consequences? Find out!

To circumcise or not to circumcise: That is the question. There has been a long-running debate amongst public health officials and sex educators on the subject, with major studies lending evidence to both sides.

The Top 5 Romantic Adventures

The Top 5 Romantic Adventures

Explore the pleasure, fun and intimacy of being with your partner without a special occasion!

The Top 5 Romantic Adventures Consider supplementing the flowers and candy by delving into your creative mind to draw upon some pleasurable, fun and intimate experiences.  The following 5 romantic escapades were ways in which couples have decided to celebrate their relationship and make it an encounter to remember.

How To Arouse A Man: 5 Surprisingly Simple Ways

How To Arouse A Man: 5 Surprisingly Simple Ways

If You Want To Know How To Arouse A Man, Then You Need To Use These Tactics, Tips And Techniques!

If you really want to learn how to arouse your man, then you need to stimulate both his body AND his mind. You'll be glad to know that doing this is not just a case of being overtly sexual. I'm going to show you some really subtle, fun and easy things you can do to turn him on and arouse him both mentally and physically. (P.S. These are just a small section of the hot tips, tactics & techniques that you will find in the Bad Girl's Bible site).

How To Pleasure A Man: 7 Powerful Tips

How To Pleasure A Man: 7 Powerful Tips

Learn How To Pleasure Your Man Using These 7 Incredibly Powerful Tips And Techniques.

I'm going to show you how to pleasure a man using a few very simple, yet powerful techniques and tricks. Once you see how easy it is to pleasure your man in bed, you'll have one very happy man on your hands!  (P.S. These are just a small section of the hot tips, tactics & techniques that you will find in the Bad Girl's Bible site).

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Careful ladies, your magazines may be causing you to develop certain urges...

Does Reading Women's Magazines Lead To (Gasp!) Premarital Sex?

A new study examines the effect of "Cosmo" and other women's magazines on female sexuality.

Now that Joanna Coles has taken over at "Cosmopolitan" magazine, there's something I'd like her to know. Joanna, your magazine is polluting the minds of women everywhere.

3 Reasons (Some!) Women Don't Like Receiving Oral Sex
"I worry he doesn't like doing it." Hey girl, get over it!

3 Reasons (Some!) Women Don't Like Receiving Oral Sex

Why some ladies aren't crazy about their partner heading "downtown."

Taking a walk with some friends one day, sipping coffee and having one of those hilarious TMI sex conversations you sometimes slip into with people you know really well, I heard something that stopped me mid-iced latte. Totally casually, as though it was no big deal, a friend asked if the rest of us enjoyed receiving oral sex, because she really, well, didn't.