9 More Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 2 of 4
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9 More Things I Wish I Learned In Sex Ed—Part 2 of 4

The only sexuality education I received in secondary school (or high school in the U.S.) was in the form of annual school talks presented by pharmaceutical companies promoting sanitary pads or tampons (depending where they were from). The boys got to first jeer at us, as they went out to play in the sun. We, the young ladies, had the burden of listening to instruction on menstruation and the need to clean up after ourselves.

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Experts Blog

From DSK To Duke Lacrosse: Do We Charge Rape Too Quickly?

Why are prosecutors so quick to act on allegations of rape? So quick, it seems, that they often do so, especially in high profile cases, before they have a reasonable belief they can prove the case beyond a reasonable doubt—the standard of proof required in a criminal case. When, as in the Dominique Strauss-Kahn (DSK) and Duke Lacrosse cases, charges are brought prematurely and then dropped, it leads to a trial by pubic opinion. Did he do it? Did she lie? We may never know. That doesn't, however, stop people from taking sides and having strongly held beliefs about guilt or innocence.

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Love Buzz

'The Help': Why Do Powerful Men Abuse Their Maids?

The new film The Help is a timely example of art imitating life. Based on Kathryn Stockett's 2009 New York Times bestseller of the same name, the movie, which opened in theaters nationwide on Aug. 10, weaves together the stories of three women—two disgruntled black maids, played by Octavia Spencer and Doubt's Viola Davis, and the fearless, white, recent college grad, played by Easy A's Emma Stone, who dares to tell their story—in early 1960's Jackson, Mississippi.

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Love Buzz

Could Porn Help Prevent Rape?

The question of whether porn is dangerous or harmless is one that society has had trouble answering for some time. A recent, rather controversial article in Newsweek suggested that men who buy sex, including pornography, are more likely to be criminals, including engage in violent sexual behavior. But the Scientific American says the opposite: porn could actually lower the amount of sexual violence.

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Love Buzz

Dominique Strauss-Kahn Scandal: Why Are We Blaming The Victim?

Nafissatou Diallo, or "Nafi," the 32-year-old black domestic who dared to accuse one of the most powerful men in the world of rape, has unexpectedly stepped forward to prove to us that her allegations against Dominique Strauss-Kahn, former head of the International Monetary Fund, are true. And further, that she is not guilty of the salacious accusations that have been made against her in the press since she accused Strauss-Kahn of rape two months ago.

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Love Buzz

This Swedish Police Dog Helps Catch Rapists

Behold, woman's new best friend. Rapports Opus is a police dog in Sweden who has been training for over a year to help police nab rapists by sniffing out sperm. This pup has just closed his first case. Last month, a woman was forced to perform oral sex on a man in a Swedish park. To help police collect evidence, Rapports Opus was brought in to find any trace amounts of semen left at the scene of the crime.

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Traditional Love

Opinion: Congress Should Stay Out of Students' Sex Lives

Congress has decided that it's time to regulate the college hookup (they must be out of things to do). The Campus Sexual Violence Elimination (SaVE) Act requires schools to intrude into the most intimate aspects of students' lives. In the name of preventing sexual violence, Congress, in their infinite wisdom, has decided to put their noses into everyone's business.

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Poll: Can A SlutWalk Change The Attitudes Around Sexual Assault?

Last weekend in Toronto, where I live, a reported 1,000 people marched together in the first-ever SlutWalk. The campaign was a response to a comment made at a local university by a police officer, who said women should avoid "dressing like sluts in order not to be victimized." The police have since apologized for the officer's comment, but it still hit hard with the organizers of SlutWalk.

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Love Buzz

Jury Says Women In Skinny Jeans Can't Be Raped

Outrage! The Sydney Morning Herald reports that a jury acquitted Nicholas Gonzalez, 23, of raping a woman because she was wearing skinny jeans. We've all heard of people who claim that rape victims are "asking for it" by wearing short skirts and low-cut tops, but we were especially incensed by this bizarre case of letting clothes speak louder than the victim.

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Celebrity Love

Mike Tyson & Women: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly

Not many famous men have had quite the troubled history with women that former heavyweight champion Mike Tyson has. During his appearance on Friday's edition of The View, the boxer revealed, "I don't deserve to have the wife that I have...but I do, and I'm very grateful." Here now is a brief timeline of Mike's chequered past, focusing on the women he's loved, lost and wronged.

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Celebrity Love

Steven Seagal Sued For Sexual Abuse & Harassment

Kayden Nguyen, a 23-year-old former model, has slapped action movie star Steven Seagal with a million dollar lawsuit for sexual harassment, assault and trafficking. According to her story, after answering a Craigslist ad to be Seagal's Executive Assistant, she was taken to his home where it became clear that the action star wanted her to be his "sex toy."

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Celebrity Love

Jesse James' Mistress Count Up To 4

Now that the dust has settled from the "bombshell" of Jesse's affair with Michelle McGee, the cockroaches are crawling out of the rubble. We already reported about a second mistress, but two more alleged lovers have emerged since then. Add to that troubling allegations of years-old sexual assault, and we start to actually fear what dirt will be dug up next.