Sex Is Gross...Until Arousal Kicks In
Why don't we think about the gross details of sex while we're having it?
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Sex Is Gross...Until Arousal Kicks In

Ever notice it only smells like sex AFTER you're done having it? Come to think of it, with all the fluids and sounds and grunts, sex should be pretty gross. But a new study says that it's our arousal that gets us over all the icky parts.

How Your Mattress Can Ruin Your Sex Life
Invest in a good quality mattress that is perfect for hot, steamy sex!
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How Your Mattress Can Ruin Your Sex Life

Most financially-savvy Americans are proud of themselves for saving a buck. Whether they use coupons at the dry cleaner or have been driving the same car for 12 years, many consumers pat themselves on the back every time they find a way to cut costs. On some products, however, those savings can backfire and cost you more than you realize.

5 Tips To Stay Sexually Connected To Your Partner
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5 Tips To Stay Sexually Connected To Your Partner

Sharing your fantasies with your partner is an important first step to bringing them to life. If you don’t talk about what you want, how are you ever going to get it? There are a variety of ways to have this ‘conversation’ but the main goal is to get these sexy thoughts out of your head & into real life!

5 Ways All Men Want To Be Touched [EXPERT]
When was the last time you gave your man a hug?
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5 Ways All Men Want To Be Touched

Learning how to touch your man is essential to your relationship's success, growth and development. Many women do not know how to touch a man, and learning this skill is needed for a healthy intimate connection. Touching is a skill that, for the most part, has been forgotten and replaced with other activities, like shopping at the mall.

Why Women Love '50 Shades Of Grey' [EXPERT]
Does being ravished by a man turn you on?
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Why Women Love '50 Shades Of Grey'

If you have not heard about the popularity of the novel series, Fifty Shades of Grey, by E. L. James, than you are likely living under a rock. This romance novel's overnight smash popularity is an indication of several things. Number one, women enjoy sex. Number two, women do like erotica. And, number three, women enjoy their erotic adventures wrapped in a handsome fantasy and safely packaged in a monogamous relationship.

Condom Carrying Women: Keen Intelligence or Notoriously Slutty?
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Condom Carrying Women: Keen Intelligence or Notoriously Slutty?

Condom Carrying Women As I’ve gotten older, I tend to care less what other people think of me. This isn’t to say that I’m a self serving, greedy wench however; I no longer allow the fear of others' opinions to influence better judgment. When I jumped back into the dating scene after a nearly 15 year hiatus; I was blessed with ignorance. Sporting new shoes and dress, I loaded-up my new handbag with dating essentials:

Let’s Talk About Sex Baby!
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Let’s Talk About Sex Baby!

Let’s talk about sex, baby! You’ve all heard the song “Let’s Talk about Sex” by Salt-n- Pepa, right? Well, let’s do. A dear lady friend of mine gave an excellent definition of  horniness.  She described horniness as the desire to merge spiritually with another. Your desire to feel and experience new energies is constant.  We often call this lust. However, our bodies are naturally, constantly creating energy.

5 Moves Men Can Learn From Christian Grey [EXPERT]
Do you wish your man was more like Christian Grey?
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5 Moves Men Can Learn From Christian Grey

There is much buzz around E.L. James' book 'Fifty Shades of Grey.' I have read the trilogy, and I think that men can learn a few lessons from it. The main character, Christian Grey, is a young, sexy and attractive billionaire who has a passion for sex. Regardless of their financial situtations, men all over the country can be just like Christian Grey. Here's how:

Not Enough Sex?
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Not Enough Sex?

Can you relate to this story? When Genevieve, a Rapunzel, was younger, she had a long string of intimate relationships. She didn't see it as love sabotage. Sex was a natural part of her dating life. It started when she was 15. Sex became no big deal. Now at 43 and struggling to define love differently, she isn't sure what is normal.

Should Women Talk Trash During Sex?
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Should Women Talk Trash During Sex?

Hell yes! Believe it or not, the woman is in control and it is she who dictates the energy. It’s unbelievable, but it is true! Understanding this fact and learning how to use it to your advantage can dramatically improve your sex life and your partner’s sexual enjoyment. A woman can make a man feel like King Kong or ding dong depending on what she says to him in bed. Why do you think men go to strip clubs? Strippers have perfected the art of telling men what they want to hear.

How Sandra Fluke Relates To 'The Myth Of Feminine Evil'
Sandra Fluke's primitive impulses and behaviors have led to a great deal of controversy!
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How Sandra Fluke Relates To 'The Myth Of Feminine Evil'

"The Myth of Feminine Evil" is the tile of a noteworthy volume published by H.R. Hays in 1964. This work occurs to me in the effort to explain the phenomenon of men degrading women for their sexuality. In "The Myth of Feminine Evil," Hays identifies the primitive custom of banning the menstruating woman from working in the fields, lest her fecundity taint the season’s crops. It is unfortunate that a variation of this practice is seen today in some strata of Arab culture, as evidenced by the stoning of women who have had sexual congress with men outside of marriage, and the acceptance of the brothers of such women killing their sisters to remove what is considered the "blight of shame of family honor."

Thank You, Rush Limbaugh!
There is some positivity that came from this man's disgusting remarks!
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Thank You, Rush Limbaugh!

It’s great that Rush Limbaugh called Sandra Fluke a slut and a prostitute! By saying what he did, this misogynistic ignoramus inadvertently launched public awareness on this important issue like never before. I’m sure that was the last thing he was trying to accomplish, which is exactly why it’s extra satisfying. To add delicious icing to the cake, Sandra Fluke has handled the potentially devastating situation with dignity, grace and intelligence. Instead of shrinking in horror from the public attention and disgusting remarks, she rose to the occasion in a way that makes all of us self-respecting women proud.

5 Questions To Ask About Porn On Valentine’s Day
Don't be afraid to question him about a very secretive topic--porn!
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5 Questions To Ask About Porn On Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day—the ultimate day of romance, fairy tales, and absolutely ideal intimacy. This year, how about something else—how about honoring your relationship and your sexuality by doing a reality check on an issue that complicates, confuses, and frustrates a lot of people? Porn. His porn.