Pinkee here~ Talking about sex toys one more time this week. As promised, we are moving on this week to some of the more “advanced” toys. Anal sex is definitely not for beginners. It takes, in order for it to be pleasurable, a lot of lube, and an open mind. And, it also takes a certain preference. Not all partners are going to want to even try anal sex. However, all is not lost. Anal plugs and “butt beads” are other options which fall short of anal sex but can still be lots of fun.
Every week, Traditional Love rounds up the best love and relationships news with a traditional slant. This week, there was a lot of sexy activity happening among the holies. Check it out, plus 7 other links (and a video) we love this week.
Being a sex writer and all, it seems as if I should now feel overprepared for the eventual sex talk with my future children, I'm not. I still wonder: how much do I share, and how much is too much? What if I tell my kids something, and they tell other kids, and I'm then approached by angry parents who feel I'm revealing too much? How do I know if it's too soon to share something with them, or how do I know if I'm waiting too long?
Pinkee here~ I have recently had a resurgence of my love of sex toys. (It’s been a long-standing love affair.) I know some of you guys out there have some issues with toys, though. I’d say the two most common ones are either you have never used toys with your partner because you’re afraid she is too conservative, or you’ve never used toys with your partner because you’re afraid she will like them more than she likes your penis.
A recent survey conducted by iVillage discovered that less than half of all married women are satisfied with their sex lives. 81% say their sex lives are predictable, and only one in seven had experimented with something new in the past year. But it’s not because they don’t want sex: 58% of the women reported being “in the mood” within the past week. Guess what, ladies? You can do something about this!
Introducing sex toys into your regular sex routine can be quite simple if you think a few things through beforehand.
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I would love to know what you think of Sex Toy Parties. When I say "you" I mean everyone; guys, gals, young (over 18), old, black, white, whatever! Do you love them, do you hate them--If so why?! What's your favorite part of a Sex Toy Party? Have you been to a sex toy party? If so, what was your experience like? Have you never been to a sex toy party, but would like to? Do you have any questions concerning sex toy parties? Do you want to sell sex toys? etc...etc...
I would love to know what you think of Sex Toy Parties. When I say "you" I mean everyone; guys, gals, young (over 18), old, black, white, whatever! Do you love them, do you hate them--If so why?! What's your favorite part of a Sex Toy Party? Have you been to a sex toy party? If so, what was your experience like? Have you never been to a sex toy party, but would like to? Do you have any questions concerning sex toy parties? Do you want to sell sex toys? etc...etc...
Introducing sex toys into your regular sex routine can be quite simple if you think a few things through beforehand.
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Lila here~ It seems like everywhere I turn lately, someone is talking or writing about men being obsolete or in danger of extinction. It’s upsetting, and I want to assure you it’s not true. Take sex toys, for example. Men will NEVER be replaced by sex toys. Here’s why:
Some might say a lacy teddy or a feather tickler is more of a gift for him than for me—selfish, even. But I love sexy holiday gifts. Not only am I a little greedy when it comes to my lingerie drawer, but I love the reminder that my guy thinks I'm a sex goddess! That said, I get why some guys are afraid to shop for lingerie. The best sexy-gift shopping occurs through interpreting another person's fantasies; the gift should really reflect the way the woman sees herself in bed, not the way the man sees his lady. If she's classy, then don't go klassy. In my mind, I'm burlesque star Dita Von Teese in bed, so I'll be bewildered, to say the least, by a present in the style of Boob Job McGee, Tara Reid.
The how, when, why & who of the Sex Toy world. What most people are afraid to ask...much less talk about!
Not that we're complaining—being fellow Earthlings and all—but it seems that just about everything and its cheap knock-off is "going green" these days. But no green lifestyle is complete without some eco-friendly habits in the bedroom. With these four environmentally friendly sex tips and products at your disposal, it sure brings a new meaning to being sustainable in bed, eh?