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Sexual Fantasies Can Be The Windows To Our Souls [EXPERT]

Sexual Fantasies Can Be The Windows To Our Souls [EXPERT]

How understanding our sexual fantasies may be important in getting our needs met.

Much like our dreams, our sexual fantasies are the windows to our souls. In many ways, we have been conditioned and trained to fear, or be ashamed our sexual fantasies, as maybe we are somewhat afraid, or ashamed about our own sexualities. We’re embarrassed of our desires. Due to lack of education, and lack of exposure in talking about sexual fantasies we keep them hidden, quiet, shut off from the world, and to ourselves.

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Therapy comes in many forms...which one is right for your relationship?

Which Love Doctor Is Right For You? [EXPERT]

Who does what ... and how? It can get confusing, So here's the 411.

For many years, I was a therapist who worked with individuals, couples, and even corporations, dealing with the myriad of problems that we humans face. Back then, I was what one might call a "generalist," although people with relationship and sexual issues somehow managed to make their way to my doorstep more often than not.

The Ultimate Internet Sex Site For Couples - Period!

The Ultimate Internet Sex Site For Couples - Period!

Do you want to learn the science-proven secrets to having a truly great sex life?

As your Pro-Marriage Counselor it’s my duty to inform you of the best online sex site for couples; not just on the internet but on the whole planet! It’s got the coolest videos, articles and sex-questionnaires you’ve ever seen online. No, it’s not a kinky or even sleazy porn site. Besides, those lead to relationship-interfering sex and cyber addictions anyway. This site is actually designed and delivered by 2 of the world’s leading relationship experts.

The Surprising Cause Of ED: She's Hot, He's Not

The Surprising Cause Of ED: She's Hot, He's Not

How Having a Hot Girlfriend Can Contribute to Sexual Arousal Problems in Men.

Although this may sound totally counter-intutitive having a hot, sexy or too perfect girlfriend or woman is one of the leading causes of male arousal disorders or what is more commonly known as erectille dysfunction. Men's failure to perform, when it's purely psychological has a lot to do with wanting to impress, please and perform perfectly for the woman who they see as perfect. She may be the picture of perfection, i.e. model-beautiful or she may be the one you want to be with forever.

My partner doesn't want sex - What's wrong with me?

My partner doesn't want sex - What's wrong with me?

Sexual interest, desires, fantasies, passions and sexual behaviors are complex.

Jenny dressed up in her sexy red mini dress, stylish very high heels, and made sensual, inviting remarks to Tom all through their romantic dinner date.  He even appeared to respond with seductive words and sensual touch.  But that only lasted at the restaurant.  When they got home, the mood somehow shifted.  He went directly to his computer to "finish some business he had forgotten he needed to do."  Jenny waited patiently, coaxing him to "Come to bed."  Finally and reluctantlhy, he closed his computer, washed up and joiner her in the bed

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Is Sex Therapy For You? [VIDEO]

What happens during sex therapy, and can you and your partner benefit from it?

If you're like a ton of people, you've probably gone through sexual dry spells, lack of libido, periods of low sexual satisfaction, and other mojo-losing setbacks. But some sexual problems are so chronic that it's impossible to get your booty in gear without going to a sex therapist.

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Should You Try Sex Therapy?

If your lack of sexual desire is more than just a dry spell, you might want to consider sex therapy.

Despite the fact that there is a greater openness about sex today, and sexuality itself seems to be a popular topic on television, too many women and men have very little knowledge about their own bodies and how to use them for sexual pleasure. For this reason, you and your partner might want to seek the help of a sex therapist.

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Overcoming Your Inability to Orgasm [VIDEO]

Can you imagine having sex but never once reaching orgasm?

Sexual intercourse should be intimate and pleasurable, but many people who have had sex are unable to reach orgasm. Thankfully, anorgasmia is a common disorder that is also treatable. Here are medically proven ways that you can overcome this hurdle.

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Spankin' New Sex Drawer Necessity

Foreplay maps identify the road less traveled as part of Oprah's 5-step plan for better sex.

Women don't come with directions and men seldom ask for them, so it should come as no surprise that sex therapist Dr. Laura Berman spent part of her recent Oprah appearance demonstrating how map-making may enhance a couple's love-making, as part of a five-step approach to better sex. Here is an exercise you may want to try at home if you or your partner a) feel sexually unsatisfied or b) cringe and/or laugh upon hearing the word "penis."