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Vacation sex is fun, spontaneous, connecting and fun!

Vacation Sex: 3 Reasons To Plan A Romantic Getaway

Daily life often gets in the way of a passionate sex life. What you need is some alone time.

Sex is so important to a marriage that many marriage therapists suggest scheduling time for intimacy, but couples complain that it feels forced. This is where a getaway comes in.

How To Keep ADHD From Ruining Your Marital Sex Life
In a marriage, ADHD "distraction" sometimes equals porn addiction and cheating.

How To Keep ADHD From Ruining Your Marital Sex Life

Many married couples struggling with ADHD find their sex lives disintegrating: How to prevent this.

The same ADHD (Attention Deficity Hyperactivity Disorder) behaviors, compulsions, and coping strategies that send a married couple's relationship into rocky terrain can also get their sex life off track.

How Porn Can Wreck Your Sex Life
Porn: Is it bad for our sex lives?

How Porn Can Wreck Your Sex Life

Both men and women often have unrealistic expectations of their sex lives because of porn.

If a man grows up expecting the type of stimulation offered in porn, he may find it difficult to adjust to the reality of sex with a living, breathing sexual partner.

21 days to an even better sex life
Turn up the heat — clothing optional.

Take Our Challenge: 21 Days To An Even Better Sex Life!

We dare you (and your partner) to get hotter and heavier than ever in just 3 weeks: Ready, set, go!

Question: What's better than a great sex life? Answer: An outrageous, spine-tingling, utterly fulfilling sex life. So strap yourself in (wink, wink), because you're invited to take our 21 Days To A Better Sex Life challenge! From now until May 12 (for three full weeks) we — along with our partner, Durex — are bringng you the hottest (and most brilliant) sex advice a couple could ever dream of — straight from some of the nation's leading love and relationship experts.

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Gay couples have the same sexual appetites as straight couples!

4 Common Gay Sex Myths Debunked!

Don't believe everything you hear about gay sex.

When it comes to gay sex, there tend to be a lot of misconceptions among the heterosexual community. How do lesbians have sex, anyway? Are all gay men promiscuous? All people, gay and straight, have standards when it comes to our sex lives; some are obvious, and some may surprise you. Let's take a peek inside the world of gay sex, and (finally) debunk some of the most common myths.

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Tantra

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life With Tantra

You've heard of "50 Shades Of Gray". Now try 50 shades of Tantra

Hoping to get your pulse racing, your kundalini rising, and your chakras spinning like tops? Explore which path of Tantra will get your aura started. I imagine that 50 shades is actually a modest estimation. This is increasingly true in this modern age, especially now that Tantra is becoming so popular here in the West. Tantra has been around for thousands of years and continues to evolve as Eastern philosophy meets Western psychology.

How to Spring-Clean Your Sex Life

How to Spring-Clean Your Sex Life

It’s the perfect time to revitalize your bedroom mojo and let newer, more exciting lovemaking bloom.

Ready to get started? Here’s how. Update Your Lingerie Chest Toss out last season's négligée numbers and head to the nearest boutique to swipe new matching panties and bustiers on your debit card. Go ahead, splurge a little. You'll love it. He'll love it. It's win-win.

3 Ways To Improve Your Sex Life

3 Ways To Improve Your Sex Life

An attentive lover takes the time to learn what turns their partner on & delights in their pleasure.

1. Make sex a priority. Let’s face it.  Most of us have very busy lives. In order to get the important things done, like it or not, we really need to form a plan and follow a schedule. If we wait for the perfect moment before we do something, many times things just don’t happen… especially if it involves coordinating with another person. Sex is an extremely valuable part of our lives; for our overall health, happiness and emotional well being. It is also an import part of a healthy romantic partnership.

happy couple in bed with lube
Turns out lube helps your relationship outside the bedroom, too.

3 Women Reveal How Lube Changed More Than Just Their Sex Lives

While it's no surprise that lube benefits your sex life, it can also help your overall relationship.

It's no surprise that using a lubricant can enhance your sex life. But what about the rest of your love life — communication, emotional attachment, and intimacy beyond the bedroom? We talked to three real women about life before and after lube. You might be surprised by what they had to say!

State Of The Union – Your Union

State Of The Union – Your Union

The President's State of the Union is over – what would be part of yours if given about your union?

In political chambers throughout the country, including in our national Capitol, political leaders give annual addresses to talk about how we are doing and what challenges we need to face in the year ahead.  Thinking about the highlights offered in the State of the Union tonight, there are similar categories that you could use to evaluate your union.  How would you rate your marriage, domes

11 Sexy Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life
How could a game called Naughty Bingo not be a good time?

11 Sexy Games To Spice Up Your Sex Life

Games aren't just for kids. Play these steamy and erotic games for a night you won't forget.

Stuck in a sexual rut? Try one of these 11 games and reignite the passion in your marriage. Hint: they also make great birthday or anniversary gifts!