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Being the Best Sex He's Had Isn't About What You Do In Bed

Being the Best Sex He's Had Isn't About What You Do In Bed

If you want that man constantly thinkin' about how sexy you are, be the best tease he's ever known!

If you want to seduce your man, enchant him with your sexuality, and just downright be the best sex he's ever had, you gotta have two very important character traits: a silly spirit and a crude mind! My man and I have an amazing sex life, but I would be lying to you if I said that my magic spell over him was cast under the sheets. The way that I have made him a self-proclaimed addict who is hooked on our physical intimacy has everything to do with how I enchant him outside the bedroom. It has everything to do with how I tease him!

Sex & Gender 101: 8 Things They Didn't Teach You In Health Class
Not everything's as simple as it seems.

Sex & Gender 101: 8 Things They Didn't Teach You In Health Class

Think you know the differences between men and women? Think again.

Everyone knows that men and women are really different. We think differently and act differently because we are wired differently. I mean look at our brains and genitals: they are just plain different. Right? Wrong.

4 Steps to Making Love

4 Steps to Making Love

If you have found yourself in the rut of settling for sex rather than really making love, here are some tips and tricks to move you back in the right direction. Think about it. When we plan for lovemaking, we tend to be more romantic, more thoughtful, and more generous. If you will schedule time and make your passion as important as your email, your TV shows, and your food… you will both reap the benefits of the effort.

Are You Lonely Or Just Addicted To An Unrealistic Romantic Myth?

Are You Lonely Or Just Addicted To An Unrealistic Romantic Myth?

Contrary to what you may think, romance rarely just shows up at one's door, and can take some work.

Are You Really Lonely or Addicted to An Unrealistic Romantic Myth? Do what you love and the rest will follow. This is the premise I operate on and is often one of the things, which I will say to single people who seem at wits end trying to figure out why they are alone. But, this idea is often scoffed at. And I get it, actually. It’s hard to do what you love when you feel like you are lacking in some areas of your life, namely love.

Vote For YourTango In The 2010 Intent Web Awards

Vote For YourTango In The 2010 Intent Web Awards

YourTango has been nominated in the category of Sex & Relationships. Vote for us!

It has come to our attention that Intent—a web community filled with content on how best to fulfill your aspirations—has us listed as a nominee for their 2010 Intent Web Awards, in the category of Sex & Relationships. You love us! You really love us!

Bad Sex

5 Reasons A Man Is Bad In Bed

Because it's not us... it's you.

We're not going to lie. Women are a fickle sort. When it comes to sex, some women like this, some women like that, and some women don't know what the hell they want. One thing we are sure of, though, is if you're bad in bed—at least, in our opinion. Maybe it's us. Maybe it's you. But if the sparks aren't flying when we're banging uglies, it could be because we think you don't have what it takes in the bedroom. What's up with that? Find out the top five reasons we think you don't cut it, after the jump.

YourTango's Best of Sex 2007

Savor our 10 most sizzling, sexy stories of the year.

Want the lowdown on threesome etiquette? Wondering how to keep your married sex life hot? Tango's got the scoop on everything that goes on (or could be going on) between the sheets. With everything from expert advice to candid confessions, the ten most provocative sex stories have exactly the answers you looking for.

oral sex dos and don'ts

The Etiquette of Oral Sex

The ups, downs and in-betweens of oral sex.

According to the CDC; about 90 percent of men and women have had oral sex at some point in their lives‚ but that doesn't mean they continue to have it regularly, or even that they liked it in the first place. The reasons why some folks aren't up on going down are a Freudian analyst's wet dream: People fear it's unhygienic. Or they dislike the taste. Or they worry their technique is bad. Or they simply find the idea of faces being in places swimsuits cover to be generally unpleasant.