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Relationships: Do opposites attract?

Relationships: Do opposites attract?

Is that old "opposites attract" idiom really ideal? Not necessarily. But here's how you can find the

 "I just don’t understand what he was thinking!" "It’s like she’s from another planet!" "What does she mean when she says that?"

Schedule Sex to Keep the Fire Burning in Your Marriage

Schedule Sex to Keep the Fire Burning in Your Marriage

Life is just too busy. You are running around constantly and yet you desire to be sexually intimate with your spouse on a regular basis. There is this sense of distance that you are getting from your spouse. Connecting sexually is one of the key ways to intertwine your lives together. In addition to being connected sexually you want to have deep talks, long foreplay, and a bedroom that is only for you. It’s time to get radical in your marriage and make a change!

12 Best Erogenous Zones to Keep Your Relationship Alive

12 Best Erogenous Zones to Keep Your Relationship Alive

There are many obvious erogenous zones but let’s spice up our sex life & explore some new ones!

  We all want to be great lovers and if we don’t get out of the box once in awhile and be adventurous we will become complacent and bored in our relationships. After all, sex is one of the biggest contributors to the divorce statistics and people still seem to ignore the importance of keeping their love alive as a couple. Try adding some of these scenarios to your lovemaking & change up the sexual pattern you may have entered into with your partner.

Being the Best Sex He's Had Isn't About Sex

Being the Best Sex He's Had Isn't About Sex

If you want that man constantly thinkin' about how sexy you are, be the best tease he's ever known!

If you want to seduce your man, enchant him with your sexuality, and just downright be the best sex he's ever had, you gotta have two very important character traits: a silly spirit and a crude mind! My man and I have an amazing sex life, but I would be lying to you if I said that my magic spell over him was cast under the sheets. The way that I have made him a self-proclaimed addict who is hooked on our physical intimacy has everything to do with how I enchant him outside the bedroom.

Sex & Gender 101: 8 Things They Didn't Teach You In Health Class
Not everything's as simple as it seems.

Sex & Gender 101: 8 Things They Didn't Teach You In Health Class

Think you know the differences between men and women? Think again.

Everyone knows that men and women are really different. We think differently and act differently because we are wired differently. I mean look at our brains and genitals: they are just plain different. Right? Wrong.

4 Steps to Making Love

4 Steps to Making Love

If you have found yourself in the rut of settling for sex rather than really making love, here are some tips and tricks to move you back in the right direction. Think about it. When we plan for lovemaking, we tend to be more romantic, more thoughtful, and more generous. If you will schedule time and make your passion as important as your email, your TV shows, and your food… you will both reap the benefits of the effort.

Why Respecting Boundaries Is Crucial, Part 2

Why Respecting Boundaries Is Crucial, Part 2

Learning to pay attention to the little things we can do to create healthier relationships

This series continues to talk about the intricacies of being in relationships with another people and how our insecurities can lead to boundary crossings that make healthy relationships impossible. In this section I will be talking about things that violate our physical and emotional boundaries. Why Respecting Boundaries Is Crucial, Part 1

Are You Lonely Or Just Addicted To An Unrealistic Romantic Myth?

Are You Lonely Or Just Addicted To An Unrealistic Romantic Myth?

Contrary to what you may think, romance rarely just shows up at one's door, and can take some work.

Are You Really Lonely or Addicted to An Unrealistic Romantic Myth? Do what you love and the rest will follow. This is the premise I operate on and is often one of the things, which I will say to single people who seem at wits end trying to figure out why they are alone. But, this idea is often scoffed at. And I get it, actually. It’s hard to do what you love when you feel like you are lacking in some areas of your life, namely love.

Vote For YourTango In The 2010 Intent Web Awards

Vote For YourTango In The 2010 Intent Web Awards

YourTango has been nominated in the category of Sex & Relationships. Vote for us!

It has come to our attention that Intent—a web community filled with content on how best to fulfill your aspirations—has us listed as a nominee for their 2010 Intent Web Awards, in the category of Sex & Relationships. You love us! You really love us!

Bad Sex

5 Reasons A Man Is Bad In Bed

Because it's not us... it's you.

We're not going to lie. Women are a fickle sort. When it comes to sex, some women like this, some women like that, and some women don't know what the hell they want. One thing we are sure of, though, is if you're bad in bed—at least, in our opinion. Maybe it's us. Maybe it's you. But if the sparks aren't flying when we're banging uglies, it could be because we think you don't have what it takes in the bedroom. What's up with that? Find out the top five reasons we think you don't cut it, after the jump.

YourTango's Best of Sex 2007

Savor our 10 most sizzling, sexy stories of the year.

Want the lowdown on threesome etiquette? Wondering how to keep your married sex life hot? Tango's got the scoop on everything that goes on (or could be going on) between the sheets. With everything from expert advice to candid confessions, the ten most provocative sex stories have exactly the answers you looking for.