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Let's Talk About Sex (Addiction)

Let's Talk About Sex (Addiction)

An estimated 3% - 5% of the U.S. population suffers from sex addiction. Are you one of them?

Scenario #1: You’ve barely been married a month. You can’t keep your hands off of your significant other and vice versa. You (ahem) want to be with him/her night and day every day. Anywhere, anytime is your motto. You two have even been caught in an elevator, doing Aerosmith proud.    

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Help! I Want My Spouse Back. 10 Ways To Engage Your Spouse

Help! I Want My Spouse Back. 10 Ways To Engage Your Spouse

What to do when your husband/wife is physically present but preoccupied online.

Have you ever asked yourself what is happening when your spouse is online and you can't seem to get their attention no matter what you say or do? Maybe they are spending large amounts of time looking at the news, playing video games, facebooking, responding to twitter friend posts, viewing pornography or chatting in adult chat rooms. Has your spouse reconnected with an old high school girlfriend? Do you wonder if you are too trusting or too jealous? Have you ever wondered what is appropriate and what crosses the line to inappropriate behavior in your relationship?

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What We Can Learn From Rihanna About Relationships [EXPERT]
Is Rihanna capable of ending her relationship with Chris Brown?

What We Can Learn From Rihanna About Relationships

Can the Rihanna/Chris Brown story shed light on your relationship?

Rihanna was recently named by Time Magazine as one of the 100 most influential people on the planet. She's stated that she doesn't want to be a role model, but … well, she's on the list.

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What's The Relationship Between The Brain & Porn?

What's The Relationship Between The Brain & Porn?

Do you understand the relationship between porn and the effect it has on your brain?

The relationship between the brain and porn is a mystery to most. So many people have shared with me how pornography has affected their brain and ultimaltely their relationships. Many women try to understand why their partner seems to be addicted to it? Seems like they just can't get enough of it! And it's NOT just men that enjoy viewing it. It may be they are just more vocal about it.

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Should Women Talk Trash During Sex?

Should Women Talk Trash During Sex?

Turn around in doggy style and tell him to grab your hair and spank your ass.

Hell yes! Believe it or not, the woman is in control and it is she who dictates the energy. It’s unbelievable, but it is true! Understanding this fact and learning how to use it to your advantage can dramatically improve your sex life and your partner’s sexual enjoyment. A woman can make a man feel like King Kong or ding dong depending on what she says to him in bed. Why do you think men go to strip clubs? Strippers have perfected the art of telling men what they want to hear.

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9 Facts You Need To Know About Sex Addiction [EXPERT]
There are many reasons why people lose control of their sexual behaviors.

9 Facts You Need To Know About Sex Addiction

Who is affected by sexual addiction & how can it be managed?

While some people are inappropriately labeled "sex addicts" — providing a blanket excuse for all kinds of irresponsible sexual behavior — others truly suffer from uncontrollable sexual impulses, or sex addiction. The main symptoms of sex addiction include a loss of control, failed attempts to stop unwanted sexual behavior, and a pattern of negative consequences from anxiety to depression and legal problems. Here are some facts about sex addiction you may not know.

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How Much Porn Is Too Much Porn? [EXPERT]
How much is too much?

How Much Porn Is Too Much Porn?

Is someone you know hooked on porn? Read this article to help you find out when enough is enough.

Until 1994, if you wanted to view pornography, you had to get dressed, get in your car, drive to a seedy shop in a bad part of town and fork over hard-earned cash for an overpriced magazine ... all the while hoping not to be seen by the neighbor's teenage kid, your boss, the police or your spouse. Today, thanks to streaming video over the Internet and smart-phones, finding porn doesn't even require getting out of bed.

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John Edwards with his children Emma Claire and Jack at Elizabeth Edwards' funera
John Edwards with his children Emma Claire and Jack at Elizabeth Edwards' funeral in 2011.

Is John Edwards A Sex Addict?

Turns out John Edwards not only had a mistress, Rielle Hunter, but he was seeing a prostitute.

Local New York City news blog DNA Info reported today that former presidential candidate and North Carolina Senator John Edwards was patronizing prostitutes in 2007 — namely a call girl working for the so-called "Soccer Mom Madam" or "Millionaire Madam" on NYC's Upper East Side.

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Sex addicts can never can get enough of what won't satisfy them.

Is Sex Addiction Just A Myth?

Is sex addiction an excuse for bad behavior, or is it something real?

Sex addiction. Each word evokes complex thoughts, images, and responses. Put the two together and there is the possibility for controversy and confusion. Is sex addiction real, or is it just the latest cop-out for bad behavior?

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Woman Fights Back: No More Porn On Planes!
Dawn Hawkins has had enough of seeing porn in public.

Woman Fights Back: No More Porn On Planes!

Dawn Hawkins' video about watching porn in public has caused quite the stir!

Meet (awesomely named) Dawn Hawkins. She is executive director of Morality in Media, which (according to its website) is "the leading national organization opposing pornography and indecency through public education and the application of the law."

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3 Ways To Avoid Sex Addiction Relapse

3 Ways To Avoid Sex Addiction Relapse

Did you know that according to Patrick Carnes, Sex Addiction Expert, he reports that relapse happens for most individuals who struggle with sex addiction in the second six months of recovery? Most individuals gain traction in recovery through counseling, support groups and establishing strong boundaries. It is very important that individuals who struggle with sex addiction stay proactive in their recovery and the journey to having healthy and satisfying relationships. These are three effective ways to avoid relapse in a