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how lingerie can change your sex life
Wear a silk bra, a lacy nightie ... or nothing at all.

How The Right Panties Can Change Your Life

21 Days To An Even Better Sex Life — Challenge #4: Heat up the sheets with tantalizing sleepwear.

Lingerie isn't about him and what will turn him on — it's about you and what means you feel smooth, silky and sexy.

sensual massage
The first step? Create a calm, distraction-free environment.

12 Sensual Massage Dos & Don'ts

Think of a sensual massage as a slow tease ... of sexier things to come.

Sure, you can turn up the heat in your relationship by forking over a handful of cash for an expensive couple's massage. Or you can take matters into your own hands — literally — and give your partner a sensual massage right in the comfort of your own home. After all, who knows your lover's pleasure points better than you?

How To Activate Your Sensuality

How To Activate Your Sensuality

Turn On All 5 Senses To Become a More Sensuous Woman!


Sensuality is the foundation of your sexuality. In order to get erotically turned on, you must be aware of your senses and all the potential pleasure that surrounds you in every moment. In our wired world, we often focus on so much digital stimulation that we forget to tune into the physical, sensual world around us. To become more erotically alive, take some time to focus on enjoying the full potential of your sensuality. 

5 Ways to Make Sex More Sensual

5 Ways to Make Sex More Sensual

Make your lovemaking more sensual by being aware of all your senses.

When you hear the word “sensual” you are most likely going to relate it to something sexual.  If someone says to you, “You should try these strawberries.  They are the most sensual fruit I have ever tasted,” where does your mind go?  Does it click in on just the fact that those strawberries must have been ripened to perfection?  Or does your mind instantly click to a sexy image of biting into the fruit?  What if someone offers to take you on a sensual journey?  The first thing that probably comes to mind is the sexual scenario implied

Want to add spanking to your sex life?

Want to add spanking to your sex life?

Spanking is a pretty common desire (on both sides of the ass smacking ;)

Spanking is a pretty common desire (on both sides of the ass smacking ;) and it’s a sexy activity with a wide range of approaches. It can be kinky, but it doesn’t have to be. It can be part of power play, but that might not have anything to do with it for you. Or it might be simple about the physical sensations.

8 Most Desirable Qualities In Women ... According To Men [EXPERT]
Do you have all eight?

8 Most Desirable Qualities In Women ... According To Men

If you're single and searching for the man of your dreams, all you need are these eight traits!

Below are just a few of the most desired traits that men look for in the women they want to be with for life.

 Top Aphrodisiacs for Him and Her - part 1

Top Aphrodisiacs for Him and Her - part 1

Aphrodisiacs? Really? Are there herbs and supplements that can improve sexual functioning and sensua

c. 2012 Susun S Weed (Expert) Author: Down There: Sexual & Reproductive Health the Wise Woman Way Aphrodisiacs? Really? Are there herbs and supplements that can improve sexual functioning and sensual pleasure? Yes, indeed, there are, and they are generally safe to use, easy to find, quick to work, and simple to understand. And the same aphrodisiacs work for both men and women. Share!

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Regain your sexy relationship with these 10 tips!

Have You & Your Partner Lost That Lovin’ Feeling?

10 simple things to spark that desire and set your love life on fire again!

After many years of being in a committed relationship, both people very busy, kids running around, family obligations, and possibly even two careers and a household to manage, it’s not shocking that intimacy would be the last thing on someone’s mind.