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The One Word You Can Use To Magnetize The Right Man

The One Word You Can Use To Magnetize The Right Man

Bobbi Palmer tells women dating over 40 the one word that will change how men respond to them.

A single man I know once said: If a woman I'm interested in doesn’t seem to love herself, why should I love her...and trying to convince her that she's great would be too f---ing exhausting.   When a man meets this kind of woman he may be attracted initially, but after figuring out that she is a project (one he doesn't care to take on), he will soon disappear. Your phone won't ring after the first or second date because if you're not keen on yourself, a good man takes that as a signal to run.

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A new study shows us where negativity really belongs: the trash.

Start The Year Off Right: Throw Away Negative Thoughts

Make 2013 a year of positivity with this simple pick-me-up.

Clouded by a bad thought today? A new study shows that physically throwing away negative thoughts clears them from your head.

Does Your Confidence Depend On The Approval Of Others? [VIDEO]
Are you self-confident?

Does Your Confidence Depend On The Approval Of Others?

What to do when your self-esteem hangs on what other people think.

Does your mood depend a lot on how people treat you, what they say and how much praise you receive? When you don't get positive feedback, are you just crushed? If so, you aren't alone.

How Having Faith Can Help You Find True Love [EXPERT]
Got faith?

How Having Faith Can Help You Find True Love

Why every woman needs to learn to let go and have a little faith.

After a lifetime of working on myself, I have made a profound discovery. I have become overly self-sufficient. I trust and believe in myself, but there is something bigger, better and more delicious available and sometimes, my need to be overly independent can compromise that. I am suggesting that there is more to life than trusting ourselves.

The Number One Thing Men Find Attractive [VIDEO]
The Number One Thing Men Find Attractive

The Number One Thing Men Find Attractive

How to take advantage of what really turns him on.

Are you worried that your man doesn't find you attractive anymore? Do you find yourself looking for different ways to turn him on like you used to? 10 Things Men Love About Women In this video, Relationship Coach and YourTango Expert LiYana Silver dishes the secret of what men are most attracted to in a woman. Find out how you can use LiYana's idea of a "Pleasure Thermometer" to become irresistible to your guy.

Why 'Having It All' Doesn't Have To Mean Having Kids [EXPERT]
What does "having it all" mean to you?

Why 'Having It All' Doesn't Have To Mean Having Kids

Anne-Marie Slaughter's article in the Atlantic assumes "having it all" includes having kids.

Ever since Anne-Marie Slaughter's article 'Why Women Still Can't Have It All' appeared in the July issue of The Atlantic, I've been fired up and pissed off ... because she's absolutely right.

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Quick fixes for all your hair and makeup oopsies.

Oops! 5 Beauty Quick-Fixes

Streaky self-tanner? Overplucked eyebrows? No worries, we've got your beauty quick-fixes here.

Streaky self-tanner? Overplucked eyebrows? You're not alone. We've all had these beauty mishaps more than once. No one can keep it together 100 percent of the time; not even you, sexy lady.

4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates [EXPERT]
What does your body language say about you?

4 Tricks To Exude Confidence and Attract More Dates

Discover what your body language says about you.

The way that a person walks, talks and moves can speak volumes to their character and ultimately be a deciding factor in whether or not you choose to approach them. Is your body language sending the right message to your potential suitors?

Friday Love Trivia yourtango
In honor of our "Irresistible You" campaign, Friday Love Trivia is about beauty.

Friday Love Trivia: 5 Surprising Facts About Beauty & Self-Esteem

Play this week's Friday Love Trivia and answer questions about beauty.

Play Friday Love Trivia! What percentage of women claim to have "high self-esteem"? What is most women's favorite body part on themselves? Do most people really tend to gain weight when they get into a new relationship? Would most women change their appearance for their partner (even if they didn't agree with his criticism?) Do men find Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston more attractive?

5 Ways To Instantly Boost Your Self-Confidence
When you need a self-confidence boost, check yourself out. Hey, good-lookin'!

5 Ways To Instantly Boost Your Self-Confidence

Feeling down in the dumps? Here are some ways to increase your self-esteem in a heartbeat.

Sometimes you get hit by a bad day or fall into a slump. Whether you've got an hour or just a couple of minutes, try one of our ideas to instantly improve your confidence.

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Two ways to feel instantly irresistible: Eat amazing food and wear red lipstick!

7 Ways To Feel Irresistible Right Now

Simple ways to look -- and feel -- a little more attractive.

The results of our "Irresistible You" (IY) survey show that many of you need an extra boost of confidence in your life: Only 12 percent of women said they have "high" self-esteem. Time to spend some time on yourselves to build self-confidence, ladies.