I Love You: Why The Words Aren't Good Enough
Your words are great and all but you should probably also show it.
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When Saying 'I Love You' Isn't Good Enough

Do you hear the words "I love you" and feel confused that your partner's actions don't match their words? Expert Lindsey Ellison explains how to turn these words into the actions that will make you feel love instead of just hearing about it!

What if He Doesn't Say I Love You?
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What if He Doesn't Say I Love You?

Sandy, I’ve been dating Josh for three months. He’s good-looking, smart, and most importantly, treats me with respect. I’ve had a tough dating and relationship history. I was engaged to a guy who never followed through with his promises and broke off the engagement. I was married to a man who cheated. I’ve been following your great advice, and I now love and respect myself so much more.

Relationship Coach: Expressing Love Through Actions
Even though you're hearing those three words, do you feel loved?
Experts Blog

Use Your Actions: When 'I Love You' Isn't Enough

Hearing "I love you" can be one of, if not the greatest, joy that we can receive in relationships. However, what if your partner's actions don't express that declaration of love? This relationship coach provides relatable examples — do you recognize this happening in your life?

Is It Love Or 'Not Love'
Experts Blog

Is It Love Or 'Not Love'

Realizing you love someone or saying, "I love you," is one of the scariest parts of any relationship. But how do you know if it's love or something else? Our checklist below will help you realize.

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Hey, babe, my eyes are up here.
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Love Bytes: 12 Things Men Just HATE

12 pet peeves of all men. 15 things women don't want to hear. 12 reasons why solo vacations rock. How to meet his family using GIFs. Dating trips from the 1920s. And more of the latest love news.

Ask Kim: “Who should say I love you first?”
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Ask Kim: “Who should say I love you first?”

Question:I am in a beautiful relationship that seems quite solid but he has not said that he loves me. Who should say I love you first?” – Tanus D., Calgary AB Answer: Tanus, I am SO glad you wrote in – I’m always thrilled to hear when past graduates meet a great guy. Many women are in the dark about how to handle this the right way – and overjoyed you’ve provided the opportunity to clear this up both for you AND all my other readers.

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One-Third Of People Say 'I Love You' Within A Week

The cool breezes of autumn may have you looking for something a bit more human than a pillow to snuggle with. As you start the hunt for fall romance—or continue with your current relationship—a new survey from the makers of Wet personal lubricants has a few tips to share.

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97 Days Is The Norm For 'I Love You'

According to researchers at M.I.T. (fancy!) men are the first to say "I love you" in a relationship 61% of the time, but are happier when the woman beats them to the punch. The research also suggests that a man considers saying those three little words a full 6 weeks earlier than the woman does. Hmm. Can how soon a many says he loves you determine if he just wants to get in your pants? The study also finds that men starting thinking about saying "I love you" 97 days, or about three and a half months, into a relationship. That time frame seems about right to me. It takes a while to get to know someone and fall in love, and after 90 days you probably have a good idea about your feelings. So if a guy tells a girl earlier than that 97 day mark, what are his intentions? Sex, of course.

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Should I Tell Him How I Feel?

For the past few months, I’ve been developing a friendship with a guy named Kevin. I felt some kind of a connection with him from the beginning, and that has continued to grow the more we spend time together. I didn’t really put much thought into our connection, however, because he had a girlfriend he seemed pretty crazy about and I considered him off-limits. But that all changed when his girlfriend suddenly moved cross-country last weekend for family reasons, presumably for good. Should I tell him my feelings now, wait for a while, or just forget it altogether? When will I know that it’s right, or that I should just give up?

The Best Of The Web: Thank You FOR Cheating
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The Best Of The Web: Thank You FOR Cheating

Thanking the other woman. Spoil the cuckquean and punish the other woman. Christian cartoons against infidelity. Marrying a gay man for his green card. Cohabiting needs a prenup. Leave the magic tricks to David Copperfield when flirting. The state of American Herpes. Tom Matlack on the link between fatherhood and male camaraderie. Referring to one's self as "romantically challenged." Online dating deja vu. And saying I love you the right way.