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How The Recession Forever Changed Relationships

Examining the economic downturn's effects on how we find and show love.

Examining the economic downturn's effects on how we find and show love. With strapped wallets, tightened belts and the national unemployment rate nearing double-digits, we can only hope that rumors of the recession's demise prove true—and soon. Here at YourTango, we wanted to know how the economic downturn in the U.S. has changed dating, marriage, sex and family already, and which of these changes will stick when the recession's over.

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How To Recover From An Unexpected Financial Emergency

YourTango Experts tell you how to save your relationship and yourself during a money crisis.

Recovering from an untimely or unexpected financial crisis is a process that involves both a plan and an attitude shift. Sure, bad things can happen unexpectedly, but the way out of them is smart thinking and a strategy. If you find yourself facing an unexpected emergency, here's how to get out of it with ease and grace.

Have Less Holiday Financial Stress

Have Less Holiday Financial Stress

Personal finance expert Manisha Thakor shares "mindful" holiday budgeting and spending tips.

Does holiday shopping & spending stress you out? A few years ago I stopped doing the holidays. My corporate job had me on a plane every 3 to 4 days. My daily work hours were in the double-digits, and the mere thought of picking out - let alone sending - holiday cards was enough to throw me into tears. Shopping for presents... forgetaboutit. I didn't have the emotional energy to face the crowds and stores.

How To Be A Golden Girl

How To Be A Golden Girl

Are you worried about ending up old and poor? The Transamerica Center for Retirement Studies, a non-profit, private foundation, recently released the results of their 11th annual survey on retirement issues. The study is packed with eye-popping data for us women.

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How To Tackle Money Matters In Relationships

The Money Couple on when to broach the money topic and how to test the transparency waters.

"Eventually, money affects every part of a romantic relationship. Where you live, where you eat, where you vacation, where your kids go to school and what car you drop them off in," says Bethany Palmer of The Money Couple who wrote, First Comes Love, Then Comes Marriage. The tricky part is knowing at what point financial matters should enter your relationship and how to bring up money matters.

Poll: Are Your Spending Styles In Sync?

Poll: Are Your Spending Styles In Sync?

In a relationship, spending habits can become a touchy issue. How do you handle money?

Poll: Are Your Spending Styles In Sync?: We are totally in sync. We've worked out a financial plan and we stick to it. We both spend what we want. Not really an issue as long as we each don’t go overboard. One of us is spender, the other is a saver. I'm not saying who is who! Money is an issue for us, and I think it's hiding deeper problems.

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Saving Money—And Your Relationship—After Job Loss [VIDEO]

How to support an unemployed partner.

Times are tough and, these days, jobs are lost as regularly as kids lose their baby teeth. In a relationship, when one partner becomes unemployed, it can be a challenge to stay upbeat and supportive. One YourTango user came to us for advice on the matter. We asked the stars of our new series Still Life Love Advice to tell us: how do you save money and your relationship when your love gets laid off?