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How To Stop Sweeping Things Under The Rug

How To Stop Sweeping Things Under The Rug

Why men and women really sweep stuff under the rug. It's time for communication spring cleaning!

May 3 is National Lumpy Rug Day which is basically means it' time to do some spring cleaning and get rid of a lot of your junk. Literally, the lumps in the rug usually come from the furniture that has been sitting around in the same place for ages but in close relationships, those lumps come from sweeping things under the rug.

Learn How To Gain Respect By Putting Yourself First
Do you always have to prove your love?

Learn How To Gain Respect By Putting Yourself First

Are you exhausted from trying to gain approval from all your loved ones?

Melanie grew up with a narcissistic mother who demanded that Melanie conform to her concept of how a child should behave. To protect herself from her mother's anger, blame and disapproval, Melanie tried to be the "perfect child."

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April fools!

April Fools! 7 Signs Your Guy Is Not 'The One'

Don't be fooled by love.

Now you're an adult, and you certainly don't want to be made a fool of. Yet, as you start to get involved with someone, it's a real possibility that the person you're seeing is really not the person with whom you're meant to spend the rest of your life.

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Are you afraid of commitment?

How To Overcome Your Fear Of Commitment

Four steps for even the most stubborn commitment-phobes.

How do I deal with my fear of commitment? It's not an easy journey; it's not something that changes overnight, but with conscious efforts , we can get closer to letting go, closer to surrender. After all, a fear of commitment is nothing more than a fear of letting oneself go.

State Of The Union – Your Union

State Of The Union – Your Union

The President's State of the Union is over – what would be part of yours if given about your union?

In political chambers throughout the country, including in our national Capitol, political leaders give annual addresses to talk about how we are doing and what challenges we need to face in the year ahead.  Thinking about the highlights offered in the State of the Union tonight, there are similar categories that you could use to evaluate your union.  How would you rate your marriage, domes

Being Assertive- Better Than Fight Or Flight (EXPERT)

Being Assertive- Better Than Fight Or Flight (EXPERT)

In any conflict we are used to fight or flight, but there is another way. Choose to be assertive.

Assertiveness-Getting What You Want In the world today we are faced with many choices. We are all built with the instinct for fight or flight when faced with confrontation. But there is a third way--it is to speak up with an assertative voice about what we really want and need in life.

Parent Advice: 5 Ways To End Teen's Behavior Problems

Parent Advice: 5 Ways To End Teen's Behavior Problems

The best time to teach respect, responsibility and resilience is when kids are small. Not too late.

Imagine a scene where you ask your teen to pick up his clothes and he smiles and does it immediately.  Does that sound too far-fetched.  Maybe not, read on…. Every teen misbehaves at some point or another. From talking back and slamming doors to ditching class and using profanity. It’s normal for teens to want to feel independent, but it’s not acceptable for them to act out in a negative manner. Don’t go to the extreme, however — sending them off to boarding school isn’t the answer.

Lose The Lecture With Kids

Lose The Lecture With Kids

The more you talk, the less they hear. Say it in a word.

You know when you're lecturing.  You can see it on your child's face. Or in the eye-rolling.  Or in the sigh.  They know what's coming after the first few sentences, proabably after the first few words. But you keep going because now they're being disrespectful and you're going to make your point if it's the last thing you do! You've been there. I've been there. Maybe you got that look or sigh from your partner, too.

3 Easy Steps To Enjoy Children

3 Easy Steps To Enjoy Children

Perhaps you are uncomfortable around kids. Would you like some easy steps to enjoy children?

Imagine a scene where you are laughing and having fun with the children in your life?  Can you picture the joy you will feel when there is no stress or  disharmony?  Is it possible to have that quality time with your family and children in your circle of influence?  You will think more positively after you have read these three easy steps to really enjoy children.

Start Over With Family This Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving is the time to put aside family issues.

Start Over With Family This Thanksgiving

Use this example when trying to break through to family members on Thanksgiving.

The Thanksgiving holiday is a perfect time to offer up some ideas that each can consider for bringing the family back to what you want it to be and start having more fun with each other in the light of love and connection.