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Is your happily ever after slipping away from you?
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Why Marriage Doesn't Always Equal Happily Ever After

"Why didn't someone tell me it was going to be so hard? I thought that after we were married things would settle down and we could just be happy together! How come we just fight—and our fights go around in circles and we never solve anything? I am not even sure I should have gotten married in the first place!"

Make Today A Love Checkup Day
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Make Today A Love Checkup Day

Today is the perfect day to do a romantic life check-up, where you take account of what you have~and compare it to what you want.  If it's off at all, this is a good time to assess if you are in the right relationship or not.  One clue to knowing if you are with the wrong man, is to notice the patterns of your relationship.

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Sometimes, you have to let your man take the lead in the relationship.
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Wives, Do You Honor Your Husbands?

It was a quick wake up call to learn that my husband didn't feel I honored him--and then I set out to learn what honoring your spouse really means. In a world where traditional values pull us women in one direction and modern notions pull us in another, are we really still expected to submit to our husbands?

Are You Dancing On The Beach Of Life?
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Are You Dancing On The Beach Of Life?

Dance on the Beach of Life! Sometimes in our lives we reach rock bottom. We experience what we call hell. For each of us it's dressed up differently, but for all of us it is dark, tough and devastating. This hell can be our awakening. Some people call it a break-down; I believe it is a break-through. This was the sequence of my hell over three months.     * My second marriage failed * My business failed * My youngest daughter left me to live with her Dad * My health failed

Opposites Attract... Except When They Clash
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Opposites Attract... Except When They Clash

We see it all of the time. Two people who seem completely opposite from one another fall in love and end up together. There are those couples who are physically very different—one is quite short and the other quite tall. Or, one might be the veritable social butterfly who is extremely extroverted while his or her partner thrives on being quiet and at home alone with just the two of them.

You're Unhappy But Your Partner Is Fine—What Can You Do?
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You're Unhappy But Your Partner Is Fine—What Can You Do?

Are you unhappy in your relationship, want your partner to go to counseling with you and he refuses? The majority of the work I do is with women who want their partner's to change and are frustrated because he doesn't see the need for it. This is when the real work begins! Whenever you are in a relationship and find yourself unhappy about how things are going, commonsense would dictate that you need to have your partner’s cooperation to “fix” things. But that is not necessarily true.

WHATS REALLY GOING ON
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WHATS REALLY GOING ON

Whats really going on in my life. So its 1:55 and i cant sleep cuzz i keep hearing noices. But who can i call "trey" or ray. I felt as though i hurted them  & they hurted me. "trey" isnt my prefect luver. I want ray but some how i cant leave "trey" alone. & if i call ray would he answer. Would he help me out or just talk bout his birthday present. You know he actually broke up wit me on his brithday. But later on made up like an hr later. I played everything by the book. I really want to call him up. I need confert& im scared.

Re-connecting With Your Lover
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Re-connecting With Your Lover

A wonderful way to connect with your partner when you first meet after a long day is a simple tantric hug. This is a gentle, yet effective, way to tune your energies by simply placing your bodies together. When you’re in closer energetic harmony, then it is easier to move to greater intimacy or you may just allow the loving touch to be a renewing contact.

Oh Baby It's Cold Inside
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Oh Baby It's Cold Inside

Brrrrr When temperatures drop and the weather gets icy and cold, it can be a great excuse to cuddle up with your love in front of a fire or in bed. How delicious to make love with your partner or just spoon under a big cozy blanket! How horrible when you and your partner are locked in conflict or frozen by hard feelings and resentments. When it's cold INSIDE your relationship, there is no fun, no passion and it can feel like there's no love either.

Why Black Men Date Outside of Their Race:A Mathematical Breakdown
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Why Black Men Date Outside of Their Race:A Mathematical Breakdown

How To Get the man of your dreams.com has decided to tackle one of the toughest and most controversial subjects of our century, with a solution and explanation through mathematical and economic deductive reasoning. It is purely a mathematical equation. If you talk to 100 black women and get one decent one, and you talk with 100 white women and get twenty decent women, it just makes mathematical and economic sense to date the women with whom you would have spent the most amount of time and had the least financial burden.

7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams
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7 Positions to Sleep in that Will Excite the Man of Your Dreams

Body language reveals our true feelings, and your relationship partner has no trouble with picking up on this physical queue. But what does your body language say while you are sleep? Are there sleeping positions that will excite the man of your dreams? In sleep, we are our most honest, vulnerable selves and certain sleep positions can immediately evoke sensual thoughts and pleasures.

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He tells me he's sad that he will never have a hot girlfriend.
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Help! My Boyfriend Doesn't Find Me Attractive!

I'm in a long distance relationship, and my boyfriend is nice and sweet and we connect really well. We had been friends for several years before we started dating, and back when we first became friends, he had the hots for another (super hot) friend of mine. Now, the thing is, even though other aspects of this relationship are going well he has said, more than once, that: a) he doesn't find me hot; and b) that friend of mine is getting hotter each day.

From the Mouths of Men
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From the Mouths of Men

I’m fortunate enough to have a good number of “guyfriends.” They’re like girlfriends, but… well, they’re guys. So they put a whole different spin on conversation. We don’t talk about the latest nail polish colors or <yawn> the what can become when talking with women… tiresome topic of children; rather, we talk about the stock market, business ideas, or how their boat is running, the work they’re doing to it, and the next trip they’re gonna take on it.

Is The Internet Wrecking Havoc on Your Relationship?
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Is The Internet Wrecking Havoc on Your Relationship?

The internet is one of the best inventions of our modern time. It is truly the information superhighway. But like any good thing there is always a dark side. We have been inundated with several stories in the media about some person being publicized via the net for one reason or another. #AmberCole, Rep. Weiner, Ashton Kutcher are just a few people whose business and I mean business has been put out there for the world to see. Texting, YouTube, video chatting, Facebook, Twitter, and all the other internet/social networking tools can do great things when used the correct way.