The Concept Of “FREE” Does Not Exist In A Successful Relationship
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The Concept Of “FREE” Does Not Exist In A Successful Relationship

Dictionary.com defines Whore as(noun): 1 A woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse, usually for money; prostitute; harlot; strumpet. (Understanding Why Men Treat Some Women Like Queens and Others like Whores) I know you all like free t-shirts and concert tickets from V103, Power 106, 94.7 the Wave or whatever your favorite radio station is. But men are not the radio. Ladies, if you cannot truly offer to leave a tip after a nice dinner then you should not go on the date. Suggest something like, “How about I save you some money.

Halle Berry
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Ms. Halle Berry Pregnant Again And No Ring!

Poor Halle Berry, pregnant again, and with no ring. Super gorgeous on the outside, but at some point we all have to ask, what is going on with the inner workings of Ms. Berry that makes her a super successful actress but incompatible for a long term relationship? Halle said to Oprah that she would never get married again. Those ladies are two peas in pod. So let’s set the record straight, so you don’t ever want to get married again, but you want to have babies by multiple men? Hmmm.

“She Is Not Ready, But You Are. What To Do?”
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“She Is Not Ready, But You Are. What To Do?”

Ready for what? Ready to come? Ready to commit? Ready to go out? Okay, so my mind goes first to sex, but really, with a question like this, it doesn’t matter the scenario. The issue is in how the question is phrased. “She’s not ready.” That is not a complete sentence and lacks any context. Without context, there is no understanding. Communication is the issue. Let’s start backwards: Not ready to go out? By this, I mean you’ve said you’d be ready at 7:30 p.m.

Solving the Secrets of Your Man
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Solving the Secrets of Your Man

I recently discovered the work on Alison Armstrong – who for 15 years has been honing her message on the important differences in men and women that manifest in the heterosexual marriage in typical and often frustrating ways.  Her wisdom is found in the freedom that comes when we understand each other instead of blame and accuse each other.  Last week I was sharing some of these ideas with a small group of grad therapy students.  One of the men who is newly married, lit up and said, “Oh my gosh, that happene

10 Ways To Improve Your Relationship In 7 Days
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10 Ways To Improve Your Relationship In 7 Days

Gear up for a great Valentine’s Day by improving your relationship now—it’s easier than you think! Let the Cue Cards that follow help… 1.  Act loving.   Act loving as much as possible, and especially when you don't feel like it.  We are hardwired to remember and avoid negative experiences.  Don't push your partner away from you with negative interactions.

Why Do Men Run From The Altar?
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Why Do Men Run From The Altar?

Let’s see if we can figure this out together. You have the altar, the man and you. What is the one variable you can change in this equation? For all those that say “the man,” please stop reading here. You have flunked this question. If your answer is “you,” please continue reading, because you are taking responsibility regardless of who is at fault. And when you take responsibility, you now have an opportunity to reach the outcome you desire.

Holiday Blues? 3 Ways To Deal With Your Troubles In Love [EXPERT]
It's time to love yourself and find your own happiness this holiday season.
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Holiday Blues? 3 Ways To Deal With Your Troubles In Love

The holidays bring up a lot of mixed emotions in many people. Falling in love during the holiday is a wonderful experience because the "holiday cheer" is intensified as you're looking at the world through rose colored goggles. But if you're dealing with heartache due to a breakup or relationship strife, the holidays can be excruciatingly tough for you. Here are four answers to your holiday questions and worries that will help you make this time of the year more bearable for you.

8 Reasons A Woman Won’t Give You Her Number
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8 Reasons A Woman Won’t Give You Her Number

As soon as a girl hits puberty, people start warning her of the dangers of lecherous men–if not her parents, then the media and various well-meaning mentors. The subjects of these warnings run the spectrum from garden-variety “bad boys” to creepy, relentless stalkers.  Most likely, women will have some exposure to the former and hopefully little to no experience with the latter. Fortunately, by our 20s, we realize that most men do not fall into these categories and our choice to withhold our personal info is not always based on our personal safety alone.

What Do You Do If You Have Occasional Great Sex, But...
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What Do You Do If You Have Occasional Great Sex, But...

Well, ladies, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it’s not a good sign if your man can only ejaculate while watching porn videos. But there is hope. If your man does not want to speak about his failure to ejaculate during sex, he may not feel you are strong enough to handle the truth and still love him. So our goal, of course, is to show him that you are strong enough to not only handle the truth but to make the necessary changes to solve the problems with your sex life.

How Do You Detect a Woman Who Is A Relationship Manipulator?
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How Do You Detect a Woman Who Is A Relationship Manipulator?

Dating is hard enough, but when you know there are types of women you have to watch out for, you can almost think twice about it. When you join a dating site or you are out at night in a bar or club, most likely you will meet a few nice women out having a good time. How do you determine which women are genuine?  It can be hard, because the women that have become street-smart and manipulative have skills for days. Those skills have been built up to a level that can be almost scary.

The Key to Great Love: Are You Doing This?
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The Key to Great Love: Are You Doing This?

Does it seem next to impossible to see eye to eye with your partner these days? No matter how hard you try to reconnect with them, you just can't seem to get the love you want. Have you ever set up arrangements for a family member or a close friend to watch your kids while you plan a romantic weekend with your husband? Have you ever gotten him season tickets to his favorite sports team or went out of his way to make his day? Or perhaps you've spent a lot of money on clothes and makeup to help you feel and look sexy?

The ABC’s of Shopping With a Woman
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The ABC’s of Shopping With a Woman

So, your new girlfriend has asked you to go shopping with her. First, you panic. No, she doesn’t necessarily mean for you to buy everything she tries on. She might simply want your company during what most girls consider a wonderful way to pass the time. When a woman asks you to accompany her shopping, it would be a good idea to clarify what kind of shopping she’s interested in doing, e.g., shopping for a specific event, shopping for sale items, shopping for a gift, shopping because it’s Tuesday or simply window shopping– this, of course, means she just

What Are The Signs That A Woman Is Being Dishonest?
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What Are The Signs That A Woman Is Being Dishonest?

OK lets be brutal here guys a woman will tell untruths the entire day long if necessary to keep life on an even keel and for the most part society accepts this as a ‘norm’ as friendships can be based on overlooking aspects of truth..ie does my butt look big in this? Lie, Lie, Lie and then do what women do, refocus on another aspect that is true, redirect attention to an area that you can be honest and genuine and supportive in.