How do you respond to your partner when he does something that annoys you? For example, let’s say you come home from work after an incredibly long day at the office to find that your man is already asleep, and there’s a sink full of dirty dishes that aren’t going to wash themselves. How do you respond? Do you talk to your man about it? Do you let it slide, assuming he had a rough day at work? Or do you wake him up and get angry, criticizing him for being so lazy and inconsiderate?
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Hearing your man is not listening to your man. To hear your man, or say, “I hear you,” in my humble opinion, is disrespectful, because to hear someone does not mean you understand. It does not mean that your attitude is receptive. It does not mean you care about or are even listening to what is being said. Please do not act like you have no idea what I am talking about. We all have made this mistake, especially when emotions are high.
Every one of us on earth is seeking to find true love. True love can be distinguished from infatuation and conditional love. Conditional love is when you feel that you can win love only by certain behaviors and conditions. When we start doing things to gain the approval of others, then, we must surely be subject to conditional love. But true love is the opposite- it is unconditional love. It means we are loved for the person we are-with imperfections and with no conditions attached.
There is no way you can have a control over love and attraction towards someone. You are in love with someone, but still sometimes you like someone and don’t know whether it is love or just an infatuation. Life becomes too much complicated when you are steady in a relationship, but have a special feeling towards someone else.
Okay, once again, here's the scenario. You call up a male friend in another city, say Los Angeles, and say, “Hey, I am coming into town on such and such a date, can I stay at your place?” Now keep in mind that you have never slept with this friend and you have other friends in the same town that you could potentially stay with, so this man is going to have a bit of anticipation because of your choice.
Ladies, let texting be a red flag next time you think about entering a new relationship. If you are only good enough for a text, he's only good enough for the friend zone.
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Note: The principles in this article can be applied to both men and women, substituting the feminine for the masculine. My failed relationships result from wanting too much. It’s my fault. All that most women really want is to be loved by one man who loves them. This is why many women fall in love with Jesus. They know he loves them and is not cheating.
No relationship has every collapsed over money. I can already see the feathers starting to ruffle. Contenders, step on up! Anyone who believes they can prove money is the number one cause of divorce, come journey to discover: it’s simply not the truth. Finances have never destroyed a relationship. Without exception there is always a deeper issue.
Here is an interesting little exercise: Take your hand and hide it behind something and spread your fingers and slowly lift your fingers up so only your fingers can be seen and not the palm of your hand. If you did not know that this was a hand, you would assume that the five fingers that you see are separate individual entities. As you slowly lift the hand up, you see that they are all connected and part of the same organism.