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You have to understand what's the person's motivation first.
You have to understand a person's thinking, motivations, and behaviors so that you will know how to approach the situation. There are five personality types and everybody has one or more of them. Each type has different behaviors. So to truly understand a person you have to know what type they are. I've been married for 23 years and a lot of the time we have been at odds with each other. But once she found out my personality and i found out hers it has saved our marriage. I know now why she does what she does and how to relate to her. The site we used to find our personality types is called personalitydoesmatter.com give it a try your relationship will be better for it. We both were ready to throw in the towel.