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Will I ever trust him again??
My then boyfriend, now fiancé told me a few lies in the beginning of our relationship. When we first started dating, I found out that he lied to me twice about having money. He told me he had a lot of money in a account, and that he could have access to it, whenever he wanted to. So we his money situation became rit, I advised him to look into taking some money out. He did and was told he'd lose out on money by taking money. But he said he'd do it anyways. Needless to say, i found out he had no money put away.
The second time he lied to me, it was about him smoking. He told me he was going to quit. So I believed him. We went to the mall one day, and he dropped me off at the door. It took him longer than usual to park, so when he came in to the store I was in, he reeked of smoke. So I asked him, if he smoked, and he flat out lied. I then processed to leave the store because I knew he lied. He then came clean and told me he did
So now it's been a constant battle of me accusing him of smoking. He says he still wants to quit, but when we get into a fight, regardless of whatbits about, he always goes out and smokes. He never lies about it when he does. But in my mind I'm deathly afraid of him smoking behind my back. We he comes home from work, he smells like smoke when he talks, and I can smell it on his fingers. He says he goes outside when his guy friends smoke, and he breathes in the secondhand smoke at time, but that's it. He told me plain and simple that if he smokes, he'll tell me.
That's all fine and dandy, but I still feel like he's lying to me. I can't shake that gut intuition feeling that I have. Especially since I smell it. We are getting married in 2 months, and this is going to tear us apart. We fight constantly because of it. I even told him I want to set up a lie detector test, and he's all for it. I try to watch his body language, and I try to look at his eye movement etc and I just don't know.
Please help me. I just don't know what to do.......