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why wont my husband have sex with me?
I have been married for over 20 years. All the articles and books I have read are about women not wanting sex not men. My husband has no interest in having sex. I have tried talking to him I have written him letters and explained how I feel, and what I would like. I have tried things to spice up our sex life, lingerie, toys, and movies nothing seems to work. He would rather masterbate than be with me. When we do actually have sex the only thing he will do is give me oral for me to orgasm as quickly as he can get it over with while masterbates. I want more from him. I miss the closeness of being intimate and intercourse. I don't know what else to do. It makes me sad and angry. I'm confused and hurt. It has been like this for a long time.