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Why my ex already has a new girlfriend when he was the one who didn't want to be in a relationship?
We were together for three years. He always said he wasn't ready to commit to our relationship or any other one. During the three years we split for 3 other occasions and he always made me promise to be his friend even if we've ever broke up. This time the break up was for real, it has been less than three months and i just found out he is seeing someone else. The day he broke up with me, he told me he didn't want to date anyone, he was tired of not being single for a while and he needed to take care of his family and work issues he was having at that time. He also told me, he was going to be there for me, always. After a couple of weeks, I sent him a text message to see if he wanted to go to the movies, just like friends. He answered me that he wasn't ready that he needed time and to please not to call him or text him until I have no feelings for him. Until this date I never tried to communicate in any way with him. Once I saw him in the street and he came up to me and said hi and told me that I look very happy, he gave a hug and left.
Need help, I still have feelings towards him and it hurts me knowing that he is dating someone, and I haven't been able to move on. It hurst knowing that he hasn't tried at all to call me or see me after having a relationship of 3 years.
Our relationship was rocky at moments but, we were very close, very good friends, I could say that there was a lot of love between us. We cared a lot for each other.