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Why haven't my boyfriend and I slept together yet?

Published on June 6, 2010 by _crys_

We've been together for 8 months now, and still no sex... This is my first heterosexual relationship, and if and when it happens, will be only the second guy I've ever slept with. That being said, I'm not very familiar with how the rules work, or how men operate. I've never waited so long to sleep with someone I was interested in, and I just don't know if there is something wrong. Aside from the lack of physical intimacy, everything else is just fine: We have already established an exclusive relationship, and he seems to be totally into me, he was the first one to use the "L" word, and tells me often, he texts me throughout the day, takes me out, buys me books randomly (I love to read) and loves to snuggle and spend time with me. Could this just be a slow-blooming relationship? Is he scared of something? Is it the living situation (I rent from a family with children, and he is living with family)? Is he weirded out because of my previous sex life? Is it a cultural thing (he's first generation asian-american)? I just don't get it, and like I said, I don't know how the heterosexual relationship, or how me in general, work.