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Why doesn't he want me, but doesn't want anyone else to have me either?

Published on October 17, 2009 by moontear8

I was dating this guy for a couple months and he seemed great. He asked me to officially be his girlfriend and I said yes, but then he took it back, with out telling me why. He just claimed that he wanted us to be friends and get to know each other more first. I noticed a change in him, he seemed colder towards me and then he would talk about this other girl and ask my advice. So I decided not to let it bother me and I cut myself off emotionally from him. It was agreed that we were nothing but friends. But then when I begin to lose interest in being with him and I start to talk to other guys and such he gets mad and jealous and possessive. And he would constantly make moves on me, touching me and trying to kiss me. Whenever I confront him about it he denies wanting to be anything but friends with me...I am just so annoyed by this! So why is he a cold jerk to me when I spend time with him, but then gets possessive when I simply mention another guy?


im not 100 percent suree but it seems like hes too afraid to lose you as a friend thats why he doesnt wanna let go like he loves you but not love you enough to be with you