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Why does my guy only make plans with me once a week?

Published on August 22, 2010 by chelsey

I only see my new boyfriend once a week, I wish it were more. He says he has a lot going on with work and union stuff. I understand he has a full plate right now, but I really feel like I am on the back burner.its hard to be understanding and patient and I am losing interest.


I was about to write the same thing. my guy acts the same way. i am totally disenchanted now. i am at the point where i cant wait to see him to just end it. i wish it wasnt this way but when i see him paying attention to everything and everything else, well let's just say this isnt much of anything...not even much of a friendship.....maybe your situation will turn out better...

He's got other things going on (i.e. other women). This is typical behavior of a guy that wants to put you in your place from the start, it's easier to keep you there later. Nobody is that busy, it's just a BS excuse. You are his Friday or Saturday night booty call time slot, he's leaving his options open and he's not your boyfriend. Go out with others and don't be available during the scheduled time.

How long have you been dating him? Is there a chance he is married? What does he do for a living? How old?

There are many factors that come to play with this behavior. Married men tend to only have time to see someone once a week as it lowers their chances of getting caught. If he is single and dating others then well he has other options and more then likely will keep testing the waters till either someone really captures his attention, why simply because he can. If he has a career and he travels all the time and works long hours and is trying to work his way up his career then he simply doesn't have time to date and is making a half ditch effort. If his time is spent more with friends, family and doing other things that you don't know, sadly he probably just is not that into you.

My advice, diversify your dating options, live your life and do what you enjoy and if he is part of that once a week then great, if you meet someone else that is more in line with where you are at in your life now and desires to see you more often, then even better.

I don't see guys any more than twice a week to begin with. But that doesn't mean that they dictate when they can see me. It's me who dictates when they see me. The next time he asks you to see him, tell him you're busy, and don't tell him why, even if you're not busy. Your'e the prize, not him. Make him work for it. If he doesn't, your disinterest is well deserved. Just move on.

Hello, you need to find out what is really going on with him. Is he really this busy or is he playing you. Drop by his house unexpectedly and check him out through a reputable source. Don't be a call girl but respect yourself enough to know that you are worthy of someone that will show you great respect and is willing to spend time with you. God sees you as a precious young lady that is worthy of someone that will treat you with the utmost respect and care. The Bible says, "Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord." You are a good thing but you have to know it and respect yourself enough to not settle for less than your Soul Mate and not just another date.