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Why does my boyfriend only wants oral sex?
I've been dating this guy for 5 months. Our first "intimate" act was me giving him oral sex. Over the past 5 months we have had intercourse once, and it seemed forced and he seemed very uncomfortable with it. He has tried to give me oral twice but again it seem obligatory and forced, I was looking at him and he was looking at me. and I knew he didn't want to do it. I think he only attempted to do it, to make sure I would keep doing him. I love making him feel good, and I know he enjoys oral sex, several times he has said to me that he actually cries when he comes, and I see him literally wiping the tears from his face. But it seems like the more I give it to him the more he wants it. I know it is the root of a lot of our arguments, because I am totally frustrated with our sex life. We spend a lot of time together (dinner, plays, etc.), but at the end of the day, he can barely get in the house before he's ripping his clothes off expecting oral sex (we do not live together). We've had a few civil conversations about it; he told me that he thought that oral sex was all I wanted during one conversation. Then the next time he told me that he has always enjoyed oral sex better than intercourse. The last conversation was not so civil to say the least, I blew a gasket. He was erect, I asked him could we have "intercourse this time" he laughed (I have no idea why) but I asked him 3 times, he said "Lay down" I did, threw up my legs and he said "Oh Stop, You knew I was kidding, that is GROSS!" I was devastated. I went ballistic! I am very fit, and work out everyday, I work very hard to look absolutely exquisite every time we go out. I am always complimented by both men and women. He always admires me when I'm dressed, I think I look just as good if not better un-dressed. What in the world is his problem? I'm in my late 40's, he's in his late 50's, if oral sex is only thing he likes, will he change? Or should I just move on?