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Why do men have phone sex with strangers?

Published on May 13, 2009 by lorraine

I have heard my partner of 1 year having phone sex with a total stranger. I am considered a Nymph and I am always willing and able but he has a few issues so I get it as often as I like, so I don't understand why he does that. It doesn't bother me because I would rather he do that then be with another woman. Do I just let it go?

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Men have sex (any sex) because they can. If it is possible to have sex with no strings attached, a man will have sex. I think it is our nature. People (all people - including you) like to feel wanted, needed, and attractive. There is no secret to this. To change this behavior in a significant other, you have to say something. Let him know that you do not like this and tell him how it makes you feel.

Being in the phone sex industry for 16 years, I have of course spoken with thousands of men who were in committed relationships. First and foremost, many men have fantasies you'd much rather not even know about. If you did know, you'd run from them fast and turn lesbian right quick! One thing I am sure about, phone sex is the safest form of fantasy release for men. It prevents them from doing something that could possible destroy much around them. Its a quick sexual outlet, that can be very intense and satisfying and ends with a click of the receiver. Once the call is over, the PSO ( phone sex operator) goes about answering other calls and continuing her role as an actress and your signifigant other forgets as soon as he does his thing. Its called "cum and done". As you stated , its a very safe way for him to express himself and at least he's not out and about with various women. I'll try to address this further in my blogs, maybe you will find it helpful. I post blogs about the fantasies men have, you may or may not want to check them out . I hope this helps settle your feelings a little !

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