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Why do men always leave me?
I have been a widow for five years. My husband is the ony man who didn't leave me, probably because I was the mother of his children. My entire life, in the beginning, men find me pretty, smart, funny, good in social situations, and sexy. Everything will be going along fine--usually for five or six months--and then, for no reason that I have ever seen or understood, they begin to change (less affectionate, etc.) and soon afterwards, they just "disappear." they won't call, or return mine, and they never even give me a reason. They never say what I did or didn't do to make them change their feelings toward me. I am always left confused, hurt, and very lonely--but mostly just wanting an explanation. I have had two brief relationships since my husband's death and both of them ended just the way they did when I was young. I don't think that I change, but I must be doing something terrible wrong. Can anyone help me?