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Why do I feel so stuck?
I don't know what is wrong with me. I can not emotionally let go of the last guy I was seeing it was over more than three years ago and I still miss him. I feel like a part of me is missing. Deep down he is the one I want to talk to at the end of a bad day, the shoulder where I want to rest my head, the one I want to laugh with... But things just don't work between us and I know I should move on. And I have tried but nothing seems to work.
Every guy I meet or talk to doesn't seem to hold my interest enough to consider dating them. I feel overwhelmed often enough that almost every day I find myself wishing I could just lay my head on his shoulder just long enough to find my sense of balance again. I am lonely and miserable and I still miss him. Counseling hasn't helped, medication hasn't helped, moving hasn't helped, switching careers hasn't helped...So what is wrong with me that I feel so stuck? Why can't I just let him go and move on? Why do I have to be so screwed up?