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Why do guys keep ex girlfriends around

Published on April 15, 2010 by abadams25

In a relationship with a guy he is pretty much awesome but their is one little problem he still talks to his ex girlfriends. I didn't have a problem with it until I went in his email and saw that he sent a song to one ex girl. Now he told me that he sent her an email but he clearly left out that he sent her a song that was pretty telling her he misses her and she's his distant lover. When they clearly broke it off because of distance. What's up with that and should I be worried. Confronted him about and he laughed at me and said that it was ridiculous.

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I think you already know the answer to this. He's still in love with his ex but can't be with her because of the distance so you're his fill-in. The evidence you found suggests that he would leave you in a second to be with her given the opportunity. What he's doing is emotional cheating. I think it's in your best interest to find a new boyfriend who really wants to be with you and treats you as his number 1 lady. If your current boyfriend really loves you and wants to be with you, you should tell him he has to choose. Either stop the inappropriate contact with his ex or you aren't going to continue in the relationship.

Inappropriate laughter is the sign of nervousness and a sign he has something to hide, which you know he is. If he had nothing to hide he'd be open and honest with you. I agree with adrian that he is still in love with his ex, but I don't think you should give him an ultimatum. It's clear he is going to deny everything and not admit to what he thinks and feels and is doing. Think you should just leave.

It's hard to hear, but you need to leave. It's obvious that he is still in love with his ex girlfriend and is ONLY not with her because of the distance. The e-mail is evidence, that he would leave you in a second, if he could be with her again. He's just using you as a way to 1. make her jealous, 2. fill time while he waits for her. Move on causes, he's just not that into you.

She's gone. Maybe he does miss her, But he has you now. So why dont you make him want you more than he already does by making him feel good about being with you.

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