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Why did he marry me?

Published on April 8, 2010 by niecee255

We have been together for 20yrs, and this past year he decided he we should get married. I dont get though, we have been through alot in the past. He cheated ,so i cheated, he had a child from someone and i had 2 from someone else. But we stayed together, i have given up cheating way before marriage but i dont think he has. Theres no communication, he does his own thing and im basically with our children. The only time we really talk is when hes being nice because i know he wants sex. I have fallen out of love but still cant see myself without him. I could never trust him and i just dont understand why he married me when our relationships is like gone! Marriage is suppose to one of the happiest days of your life, but it was the saddiest.


I don't understand why you are in this relationship. Take some responsibility for yourself. You have a choice about who you are with and how you act in a relationship. It's not like you have no control over the situation. He didn't force you to marry him. If you aren't happy, then leave him. It's really that simple. It's not the end of the world and if you have enough self-respect you will find someone else who will treat you right. It sounds like neither of you are invested in this relationship and you honestly shouldn't be together. Maybe you feel like you can't see yourself without him because it's been so long, but there's a huge world out there full of billions of people. Why limit yourself when you might actually stand a chance at being happy?

Actually, the question is why did you agree to marry him? If you knew his history and his past and you have been with him for so long, why would you say "I do" knowing what you know?