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Why am I always 'one of the boys' and my friend 'the one'?
I'm 18 and just started college but this has been going on since I was 15. I can't say I'm not attractive, but I'm not a pageant beauty either. I am tall, with a big bust, a small waist and generous hips, but my shoulders are pretty wide for a normal girl (I used to swim a lot). Also, my thighs are bigger than most girls. My friend, on the other hand, has the measurements of beyonce, except for the fact that she's shorter than me. I'm quite aproachable for boys and I tend to make a lot of jokes (I'm quite goofy), while my friend just sits in the corner quiet and misterious. I am myself around everyone and I am as confident and comfortable as I can be with my faults. But I can't understand why all the guys get head over heels over her and see me only as a friend! She is never interested in them though, but still... I don't want to get away from her because of this, I'd like to be able to attract guys too, because everything I've tried up until now has failed! What can I do to get noticed too?