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Where to go with my FWB

Published on May 10, 2014 by candibird

I met this guy about 10 months ago and he seemed really keen in getting to know me. I was breaking up a long term relationship at the time so I really wasnt in the right space. A month later he asked me out and at the time I was not really interested and more on the rebound. I explained im only interested in being FWBs and he agreed. We have been seeing each other for the past nine months. I actually started having feelings for him, I feel we have a connection and sexually everything is very good. however two months ago he explained that his ex (apparently the love of his life) had moved back into town and wanted to make things work with her. I wished him well and we ended the FWB. I felt a complete loss in my life and found it hard to understand why I could not stop thinking about him. I didnt contact him for six weeks then tlwe communicated a little, then this week he started explaining that things arent working out in his relationship and he would like to be FWBs again. I dont know what to do. I would really like for him to be more than a FWB but dont know how to go about it. I think to a degree it might be difficult as its both our first inter-racial hook up and he is two years younger than me. He really is a lovely guy. I just think he might see me just for sex and thats not what I want. So do I agree to be FWBs with him so he is still in my life and work at becoming more than that OR do I tell him that im interested in a serious relationship and only want that. Im unsure o how to go about this. Please help