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Where did we go wrong?
My friend of 3 years and I started dating 2 months ago it was an easy transition and we enjoyed talking every day (whether via text or phone) and he used to say the sweetest things and start each day with "hey beautiful or hey sweetheart". We talked about being intimate and moving too quickly and how we want to take it slow and of course we had awkward sex and now things are weird. We've gone out on 2 occasions since and both times we've spoken about how awkward it was and why but in our last conversation he said he's emotionally unavailable and trying to change. After looking at this website I can see that I may have been charging at him, deflecting and awarding some of his bad behaviors when I should have been speaking my emotions. Now I haven't spoken to him in 2 days and I'm experiencing severe anxiety. I feel so lost, confused, embarrassed and if nothing more just want my friend back. Please help!