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When a guy says make sure you call me whenever you want.

Published on August 6, 2010 by lokistar

I've been seeing a guy for a couple of weeks. Things got kind of hot fast. We have had sex but it was only once and sort of just happened. He text messeges me everyday and says good morning and good night. We text throughout the day all day long even when he's at work. The last 3 days have been hard on me becuase I feel as if he is now trying to back up a little. He said that he wanted to be friends and see where it goes but I know that he has been little jealous on several occassions. I told him that I coldnt continue to sleep with him becuase I did not feel comfortable just being friends with benefits and I was afraid that my feelings were growing to fast. He has kind of stepped back a little and he hasnt texted me goodmorning or goodnight for 2 days now. We still text throughout the day but no greeting in the morning or night. I waited till he called today and explained that I was going out of town for the weekend with my girlfriend that had come into town for vacation. We were going to a friends house in another city for a cook out and going to the club later. I also invited him to come along. He did say he could not come with me but kept repeating make sure you call me whenever you want. He said this 4 times and I thought this was a little odd, since he kept stressing this. I'm not sure if he is still interested since he no longer says good morning or good night. Is he just upset that I stopped having sex with him? I was trying to respect myself and protect myself from my emotions growing so fast. He says that I took it to the serious level. What does it mean?


Respecting yourself is exactly what you should do. If you dont' respect yourself, no one else will either.

And he's probably upset about the lack of sex. You have every right to not want to participate in a "friends with benefits" arrangement if you don't want to. Don't let anyone pressure you this way.

If he thinks you're taking it to a serious level, perhaps he means that he just considered his time with you to be a casual fling. You clearly feel differently.

To me, this means that respecting yourself about the sex with him was the right thing to do.