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What's the deal with him?
I realise that the answer could be painfully obvious to an objective person, maybe I just need to hear the harsh truth, but here goes.
I've been involved with a friend at work - we got together a few months ago when he admitted to fancying me and I felt the same way. We didn't sleep together that time as I was recovering from a surgery and a few days later we had the talk. He bascially said although he meant what he said he's not looking for a relationship (to concentrate on his studies) and hence it's not a good idea to sleep together. Only we did, a few weeks later, and a few times since. He doesn't act like a normal friend to me, we're affectionate with each other and he totally goes out of his way to cheer me up when I have a bad day at work. I am finding it hard to accept that we're practically only fuck buddies and yet I can't understand why he told me his feelings and then be intimate with me when he admitted from the start that it would be a bad idea.
What is his deal? I wish I can not fancy him but it's bloody difficult when he's such a sweet guy. The only thing I am really pissed off is that he would say such things to me when he never had the intention for it to lead to any relationship. How do I get over him?
Thanks for reading this - any help would be very much appreciated.