I hear that you having strong feelings for this person. Those feelings are merely a projection. You can't really know if you love someone until you are in a relationship with that person. You can't know what the dynamic between you will be like until the two of you have become involved and you are both emotionally invested in a relationship. If you were one of my coaching clients, I would suggest that you tell this person that you really like spending time with him and ask if he'd like to hang out. If he says yes, then say, "Would you like to grab a drink Saturday night?" Be specific. Do not just come right out and tell him you love him. That would scare anyone away. If you would like more information about me and my coaching visit